Life is like a tree, there are also springs, summers, autumns and winters.
Retirement, winter is not far away.
Whether you want it or not, the leaves will fall, and there will be less and less left.
Smart people take the initiative to fade away the prosperity of life, just like a tree that has lost its leaves, slowly survives the winter and ushers in the "second spring".
Ignorant people desperately keep the prosperity of life, unwilling to lose the "leaves", in the winter snow, lingering.
It is true that after retirement, it is wise to learn to live a low-profile life and achieve "six buts".
There is a humble room, but it is not too wide.
In "Zengguang Xianwen", it is said: "There are thousands of mansions, and it only takes six feet to sleep at night." ”In the countryside, the older generation left a sentence: "Sixty do not build a house." ”
In a lifetime, more than half of the hula has passed, and the remaining days are getting fewer and fewer. Always learn to be at peace with what happens.
If you toss the house hard, then most of your life savings will be spent all at once. It's easier said than done to start all over again. Even if you have a pension but no savings, it is a problem to encounter illness.
The big deal of buying a house is still in the hands of young people. It's good if you have a place to live.
When you have nothing to do, tidy up the house, throw away the superfluous things, and the space will be spacious. It is better to seek space externally, than to change the space internally.
There are many rooms in the house, but what you need is a bedroom, a kitchen and a bathroom. If you squeeze it, it's enough to have a room.
Don't be in the house, just laugh in the house. The place you like, no matter how cramped, can also tolerate happiness.
Coarse tea and light rice, but not luxurious.
Su Shi said: "The desire of the appetite is not poor." Every thrift is also the way to cherish blessings and prolong life. ”Su Shi, a writer in the Northern Song Dynasty, was demoted many times, and when he lived in Hainan, his life was miserable. But he was happy because he had taro as a companion and the smell of corn and oysters.
Corn is made into a soup, oysters can be grilled, and taro can be boiled into a paste. After many attempts, Su Shi, who was in poverty, felt the sweetness of life and wrote downThe fragrance is like ambergris, but it is still white, and the taste is more complete and clear like milk. Mo will be the North Sea golden fish, lighter than the Dongpo jade grits soup.
Although we don't know how to write poetry and don't know how to study recipes, we can feel the life of poets and learn the attitude of the ancients.
The pension may not be very large, but it is really good for people who are relatively unable to retire.
Organize the three meals a day, and you will find that the food is simpler, the craftsmanship will be more sophisticated, the quantity and quality of the food will be reduced, and the quality will be improved.
Dressed plainly, not too glamorous.
Many elderly people, after retirement, like to dance square dances, ballroom dances, singing, etc. It's definitely a good thing to have hobbies, but it's not advisable to dress up too much and want to compete with others.
On the one hand, it costs a lot of money to overdress yourself; On the other hand, dressing up inappropriately for age can be an eyesore.
After retirement, if you want to become beautiful, you mainly want to improve your temperament through reading, become healthy through exercise, and become kind by caring for others.
Li Mingqi, an eighty-year-old actor, once played Mama Rong in "Huanzhu Gege".
After she left the entertainment industry, she lived in Shanghai and lived an ordinary life. Many times, everyone will find that she has no name tags all over her body. A bag, which has been used for many years, has holes in it, and is reluctant to throw it away; A pair of shoes, there are more than 200, which is very popular.
During the epidemic, Li Mingqi went for nucleic acid testing, and he has been low-key, expressing his gratitude and tribute to the staff.
The mountain is not high, and there is a fairy name; People are not glamorous, simple and gorgeous.
More money, less money, but no desire.
After retirement, can you still be a late bloomer? Is there still a chance to make a fortune in silence? The answer is yes. But we have to admit the fact that not everyone can make a fortune in their old age.
Most of them are very ordinary, living a simple life, tossing a few times, but losing all their old capital.
If you have an idea, but you don't have a good solution, don't put it into action. Be a man and be conservative, and life will be peaceful.
No man is content. There is no money in the world that can stop the pace of desire. Only "the heart is like stopping water" can we live every day well.
There is a difference between a monthly income of 1,000 and 2,000, but if you don't have a sense of difference, the difference is not big. Money is not brought in life, and death is not taken away, so why bother pursuing?
When your heart is rich, then your life is rich. Invisibly, I feel that wealth is free.
One thing to keep in mind: don't expect more money than you want. This is unattainable.
Children and grandchildren are free, but not responsible.
Many elderly people can't walk on their own, and they have to firmly control their children's lives. For the small family of children, if there is any trouble, it is necessary to point fingers.
The ancients said, "Children and grandchildren have their own blessings." ”
When you are retired, it is okay to help your children take care of their grandchildren, go to see the scenery with your children, and cook a meal for your children, but the life choices of your children and grandchildren should be respected.
Even if your children are having a bad time, don't be overly anxious. Young people have to suffer a little before they can mature. Over time, you will find that those who endure hardships early will thrive later.
If you don't blame your children and grandchildren for being useless, if you don't blame your children and grandchildren for being disobedient, the relationship between generations will be straightened out.
The circle is casual, not too much.
Yu Hua wrote in **: "I no longer pretend to have a lot of friends, but return to loneliness and start living alone with the real me." ”Retiring means leaving the workplace, no longer fighting with anyone, and not easily pleasing anyone.
You are a free man, why do you always look at other people's faces? If you like to be lively, just go find a few elderly people who share the same hobby. If you have endless strength, you can do good deeds.
I don't care how many circles there are, quit when it's time to quit, your phone has more memory, the circle of friends is cleaner, and the rotten people and bad things that annoy you are gone.
Don't make up all circles, you're not a "make-up person".
As the saying goes, "If you take the goods, you will have a moderate life." ”There are only better things in the world, not the best. If you strive for the best, you will not like anything, because you have a gap in your heart and you are disappointed.
Take a step back, if the life is "low", the heart will be "stable", and the family will be "warm".
Life is low-level, and everything is relieved.