There is a song that sings well: "The rolling Yangtze River is passing away, and the waves are sweeping away the heroes."Success or failure turns empty, the green mountains are still there, and the sunset is red several times. ”
When you are fifty years old, you will enter the sunset of your life. Whether it is success or failure, it seems to be a foregone conclusion.
Perhaps, many people are like Zhuge Liang, who have struggled all their lives and are quite wonderful, but in the end they are still not satisfied, and they leave a sentence-Since he was instructed, he has been lamenting all night, fearing that the entrustment will not be effective, so as to hurt the wisdom of the first emperor.
Really, it's not that we don't work hard enough, but that there are too many helplessness in life and we can't do it again. The principle of "planting melons and getting melons, planting beans and getting beans" cannot be evaded.
Think about it, the so-called life is nothing more than a combination of family, career, money, love, body, mentality, etc. Success or failure, from the moment you are born, there are signs.
The house of success, inhabited by people with love.
The ancients left an intriguing saying: "If you want to be filial to your children, you must first respect the elderly." ”This is an era of hoping that a woman will become a phoenix and a son will become a dragon, and it is also an era of "dragons giving birth to dragons and phoenixes giving birth to phoenixes".
Parents are a worm, why should their children become dragons and phoenixes? If you want your children to be good, then you should become better first, and don't impose your own ideals on your children.
When a person reaches 50 and looks back, the greatest success is the struggle of the children, the harmony of the family, and the health of the elderly.
However, all this should be prepared not from the age of fifty, but from the age of twenty, or even earlier.
When you were young, you brought your parents foot washing water and helped them with farm work, then you had a hard-working character; After you marry a wife and have children, and insist on loving your parents, then your children will learn filial piety from you.
Husband and wife have always loved each other, not noisy or noisy, and their children will feel very warm and have a good impression of the family. When husband and wife quarrel all the time, the children will be very embarrassed and will have the idea of leaving home.
Young couples and old companions", this sentence can be extended. In other words, if husband and wife accompany each other for a lifetime, and children accompany their parents, the family will be complete. Don't forget, there is "love" first, then there is home.
The ideal industry comes from "sweat like rain".
As the saying goes: "If the young do not work hard, the old man will be sad." ”Life has "seasons", similar to the 24 solar terms of the year. When it comes to the solar term, you have to do something, otherwise you will miss the opportunity or do things that are contrary to the development of your life.
As children, we learned the story of kitten fishing. The two kittens go fishing, they put down their rods and wait for the fish to take the bait.
A cat can't stay up, so he goes everywhere looking for butterflies and flowers. A kitten sits quietly at the water's edge and pulls the fish up. The ending is obvious.
Everyone wants to succeed in their careers, but they are afraid of the process of hard work, and when they are halfway through, they give up.
A successful business is to sow seeds in the spring, water them in the summer, harvest them in the fall, and enjoy the fruits in the winter. Autumn, exactly fifty years old.
Remember, you get what you work for. If you don't want to stay up for a while, you have to stay up for a lifetime.
The wealth of life is in the time of frugality.
My father told a story: in ancient times, there was a family of landlords who made the rule of "eating meat once a month". Therefore, when the day came to eat pork, the family was especially happy.
What is puzzling is that the landlord's plate of meat is not placed on the table, but hangs more than a meter high, and you need to stand on tiptoe to catch the meat.
It turned out that the landlordI am worried that my children are picky eaters, so that everyone can develop the habit of eating whatever they catch.
Looking back at our own lives, we will find that the children at home are picky, a lot of old toys, a lot of wasted food, and some rarely used fitness equipment, clothes at the bottom of the box, etc.
In ancient times, landlords were picked out, and today's rich people also have a process of picking out doors. There is a comparison.
People are not rich without windfalls", but when the windfall comes, you must keep it, otherwise it will be quickly lost.
If you are a 50-year-old, you have to think about pensions, houses and cars, supporting your parents, helping your children, etc., and you can't do without money for a moment. Diligence and thrift are the real rich.
A healthy body relies on strict self-discipline.
Actor Zhang Fengyi, in his sixties, is still active in the entertainment industry.
There is a message about him in Chengdu Business Daily. When he participated in a reality TV show, he showed off his six-pack abs. I went to climb Qingcheng Mountain with the staff, his speed was so fast that the staff couldn't catch up.
He said: "The crew will also exercise every day, take time to exercise before going to bed, and get up half an hour earlier than others to exercise the next morning. ”Obviously, a good body is not refined in a day or two, but the result of long-term perseverance.
Exercising your body well is the greatest success. It's a pity that many people can't do it, they don't have enough self-discipline.
In addition to exercising, it is also necessary to refuse to smoke and drink, stay up late, let go of desires, get rid of troubles, and maintain a happy mood. From a young age, it has always been like this, and at the age of fifty, you can still be "little young".
Affection needs to be accommodated for a lifetime.
In "Yu Shi Mingyan", there is a man named Ni Shouqian, who died when he was in his seventies. Later, he married his wife, Mei.
At that time, Mei's parents died and she lived in her grandmother's house. Therefore, she believes that it is also a great blessing to be with Ni Shouqian.
Outsiders think that Mei is greedy for money. It wasn't until after Ni Shouqian's death that people discovered that she had true feelings for her husband, and she never remarried in the second half of her life, and raised her children alone.
As long as it is true love, age, region, life level, money, and the attitude of others. None of this is a problem.
Many people think that the husband and wife have fallen out because they have different views, but in fact it is because they are not accommodating to each other enough.
Everyone is unique, how can the three views be 100% the same? Understanding, comparing hearts to hearts, and relying on each other are true love.
At the age of fifty, husband and wife are old wives. Looking back, it has been accommodating for decades, and it is not easy or simple. In the future, we will go together.
You must understand that for marriage, holding hands successfully does not count; Life and death are not abandoned.
How can there be more happiness in the world, everything only seeks half an inch of heart.
What is Success? Not a complete life, but half complete, half mutilated. Think of the mutilation as a kind of beauty, and that's it.
Time, fate, and fortune seem to have no clue, but they are actually well-founded.
In this life, people sow good causes and get good results, and sow evil causes and get evil results.
Perhaps, good and evil will be late, but it will not be less.
Be a good person, love people well, but do good deeds, and the future is bright.