Wen Zixi
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The decisive factor in the happiness or bleakness of married life is never the superiority or lack of material conditions, but the main body of marriage--people.
When you meet the right person, you are full of happiness; When you meet the wrong person, you start an indefinite confrontation with the pain.
As the old saying goes: "Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", the meaning could not be clearer, if a woman marries the wrong man, she is falling into the quagmire of pain, the torture of mental exhaustion, physical pain, is an unbearable memory, and even affects most of her life.
Marriage was once called "a woman's second reincarnation", but unfortunately, not every woman can successfully marry her lover at one time, and there are many women because of their excessive dependence on love, one was accidentally deceived into marriage by a "poisonous man", and since then they have lived a tormented life.
Weak women will choose to endure silently, continue to struggle in pain, and dare not say no to "poisonous men"; A brave woman chose to resolutely kick away the "poisonous man", and her life has never seen the light of day.
If you encounter these 4 types of "toxic men" in your marriage, remember to kick them out as soon as possible and make your life wonderful again.
Domestic violence and cheating are the bottom line of marriage. Some "drug men" account for one of them, and some account for both. The reason why he dared to step on the red line and drag wildly was because of ignorance and shamelessness.
In the cognition of "poisonous men": domestic violence, he thinks it is a family matter, "the face that the wife who beats him", and it is not a problem to beat his wife. Who let his wife talk and do things not as he wants? It's time to fight. I beat my wife to show that I am the eldest in the family, and I have the final say in this family.
cheating, the reason for the "drug man" is more "powerful":Women are not good, and men cheat. Men are forced to cheat by women, if women are good, how can men cheat?
There is a kind of man who has an average low emotional intelligence, who doesn't know etiquette when he is with his wife, and eats the food when it is served, and he will not wait for his wife who is still busy in the kitchen.
But when eating at other people's houses, the hostess took the initiative to say that he would eat first with the male host and other guests, and he would also know how to say with good manners: No, no, the cooking has not yet been served on the table, how can we move the chopsticks first, how uneducated.
This kind of man is not a problem of low emotional intelligence at all, but he does not take his wife seriously and treats his wife as an old mother.
In front of his wife, he showed his uneducated ugly face to the fullest, and on the outside, he showed his thoughtfulness in dealing with people just right.
Once there is a conflict, either you don't say a word and be dumb, let you cry when you are wronged, or even cry bitterly, he will only respond to you in a cold war way, and he will not be willing to stop if he doesn't drive you crazy; or choke you back with one mouth, so angry that you can't get rid of your hatred when you scold and beat people.
This kind of "poisonous man" is not stupid, but has a bad heart.
You will find that he is very good at "coaxing" other people's wives and knows how to "comfort" women other than his own wives.
Require the wife to be filial to her in-laws, buy food and clothing for her in-laws, make her in-laws happy, and prepare gifts and red envelopes for the holidays. However, he can be very presumptuous in front of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he does not need respect, and he is not willing to spend a penny, and often threatens to "spill the water of the married daughter", and a woman should take care of her in-laws when she gets married, instead of taking care of her parents, etc.
The selfish double-standard "poisonous man" always thinks that he is very shrewd, and his wife is married, as long as he does not agree to the divorce, his wife can't run away at all. Therefore, all kinds of "demons" without scruples.
In marriage, if a woman does not get the respect of her husband, she will not have a good mood at all, and she will not even have a good mood, so how can she talk about a happy life? Therefore, the noble women in their bones chose to decisively kick out the "poisonous man" without hesitation, so that their lives will never be seen from now on.
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