Life, what a hodgepodge, with all kinds of flavors. Recently, I found that in addition to the set of worries of "not being able to have a baby", there are several more headaches quietly popping up around us. Do you feel it? Well, I know, it's a bit heavy at first, but let's talk about it, and maybe we'll find some resonance.
Our generation, especially those who have just entered the society or have been struggling for several years, do they feel that it is becoming more and more difficult to find a job? Not to mention, I know it myself. If you look at the data, on the surface, the unemployment rate is as stable as an old dog, but in fact, the water below is very deep. Remember the "Spring Recruitment Talent Migration Report"? The Internet and e-commerce, which were originally popular industries, now have very few new jobs, not to mention more shocks. Especially for Internet practitioners like me, I feel like I still have two brushes, but I find that there are far fewer opportunities in the market than before. It feels like you're ready to show off your skills, but when you look at it, the stage is gone.
Moreover, even if you barely find a job, the "996" and "007" are enough to breathe. I don't understand, are we working or doing masochism? The most ironic thing is that when you finally climb to some so-called career peak, you suddenly find that, oh, it turns out that a 35-year-old midlife crisis is already waiting for you. At that time, you will find that the market demand for you is suddenly less "enthusiastic".
Not to mention anything else, the burden of our lives is getting heavier and heavier day by day. As soon as you open your eyes, you have to face the invisible shackles of mortgages and car loans. The economic situation has not been good in recent years, and I feel that I have just received my monthly salary, and I have to repay the loan in the blink of an eye. Not to mention the cost of education, starting from the child's kindergarten, you have to start planning for future education expenses. What's more, the current high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, various education policies have changed again and again, which makes people overwhelmed. There is also the issue of pension, I think our generation will have to ask for more blessings in the future.
When it comes to the future, it's really getting more and more difficult to see. In the past, if you go to a good university and get a good job, it seems that life will be smooth sailing. What now? There are more and more college students, but there are fewer and fewer good jobs. You say, "What's the matter?" Moreover, it seems that in addition to academic qualifications, you also have to have a background and connections. Without these, no matter how good you are, the opportunity is someone else's. Not to mention, even if you get into a good unit and want to climb up, the difficulty is not covered. The current workplace is like an endless marathon, you don't know where the end is, and you don't know if you can run to the end.
Ha, after all that, I feel a little negative. But don't worry, I'm still the same optimistic me. Although the reality is a bit bitter, I believe that as long as we don't give up, there will always be a solution. For example, we can try to change careers or learn some new skills. Society is always progressing, and new opportunities will follow. And, who says you have to live your life along a set line? We can find our own way of life and find happiness that is truly suitable for us.
I also hope that the voices of my generation will be heard by more people, and society will give more understanding and support to our plight. After all, the power of one person is limited, but together, everyone can always find a way out.
So, friends, although it seems difficult now, as long as we stay positive and face it bravely, there will come a time when we can smile and welcome a better tomorrow. Let's do it together!