Be a man and maintain a positive attitude so that you will not be knocked down by difficulties.
Do you think that 50 years old is a hurdle? Halfway through life, there is the past on one side and the future on the other.
If you have savings, a pension, and a house in the city, it means that you have no worries in your old age.
However, many people, at the age of 50, are still very poor, and even have to bear the pressure of mortgages. The road ahead, where to go, there is no bottom in my heart.
Staying up and taking one step at a time seems to have become the only option.
I want to tell you that after the age of fifty, it is just a different way of living, so that the beginning is still too late.
Think about it another way: life is hard, but it's not like there's no way out.
My little aunt, when she was forty-seven years old, was laid off.
Fortunately, the company where the aunt works can still be maintained, and there is an income that is neither high nor low, and it is not a problem for the family to eat and drink.
In March last year, my sister-in-law also lost her job. The family's life has fallen into an unprecedented trough.
On the other hand, my aunt's son, who has just graduated from college, has no reliable job and cannot support his family.
In order to make a living, the little aunt and the little aunt went to Dongguan together. People around the age of 50 are not popular in Dongguan. The point is, they don't have a skill, and they don't want to work on the assembly line.
My aunt used to work in a cotton mill, and her daily job was to take care of the machines and record the data of those instruments, which was not technical. My aunt's previous job was to carry goods, which belonged to the category of big and coarse.
There's a good saying: "You can never make more money than you know." ”Fifty-year-old people, give themselves a position of what kind of position, what are the ways, suitable for their own development, need to think deeply, blindly toss, or go to the factory to be a cleaner at will, it is really too aggrieved to be yourself.
After going around and around several cities, the little aunt returned to the county seat, set up a stall for two months, and then made a cart, pushed a large refrigerator every day, and sold bottled water and popsicles at the door of the bus station.
One day, the little aunt calculated that her income reached **100, and she was so happy that she danced hand and foot. You must know that she used to work in the factory and only earned more than 1,000 yuan a month.
An unexpected high income changed the little aunt's perception of society, and together with the little aunt, she repeatedly studied the skills of "setting up a stall".
The hard work pays off, and now the little aunt can constantly adjust the "direction of buying and selling" according to the changes of the season, and the monthly income is gradually stable.
The little aunt summed it up - in summer, everyone needs to be cold; In winter, everyone needs warmth. That's what the market needs. For example, you can sell ice water and watermelon in the summer, and gloves and hot tea in the winter.
Business opportunities are everywhere, and the key depends on whether you can grasp them. How can a fifty-year-old not be rich?
Look at life from a different perspective: accept reality and bring forth the new.
According to the convention, when a person is over fifty, he should live more and more chic.
Those who are in the unit, take a back seat and have nothing to do; People in rural areas don't work so hard anymore and pay more attention to health preservation.
However, people who have nothing have to "play cards out of common sense", and they have to swim against the current, change their cognition, and find a new way of life.First, accept reality, strive to integrate into society, and learn knowledge. People, as long as you have a skill, it is not too late to start a business at any age. Jiang Ziya, who is over 70 years old, has become the prime minister because he is full of wealth and knows astronomy and geography, and he has great ambitions.
I know an old writer who, until the age of sixty, was writing prose and **. After the age of sixty, he tried to write online articles, practiced hard for more than half a year, gained a lot of fans, and his income was slowly increasing.
The old writer said: "Everything changes are inseparable, as long as you think about it carefully, the routines are similar." ”
In any era, not a single skilled person will be eliminated. Traditional carpenters can transform into carving and becoming furniture designers; A bricklayer can become an artist.
Live and learn. From the age of fifty, renew your wisdom and there will be unexpected surprises.
Second, be positive, adjust your emotions, and take the initiative to do something.
A fifty-year-old person who has to go out to look for a job looks terrible, but it is not. As long as you have sunshine in your heart, then go to any unit to apply, and others will look up to you.
Don't just say, "I'm old and don't have any requirements for work, just sweep the floor." You belittle yourself and don't dare to show your work experience and wisdom, it's really too cowardly.
If you don't have a good job in your hometown, you can also choose to drift. What are you afraid of, **if you have money to make, go **.
Take the initiative and good luck will patronize you. It's shameful to hide in the corner and cry and wait for someone else to come to help.
Third, husband and wife are loving, concentrate wisdom and strength, and change their fate together.
Husband and wife are concentric, and the loess turns into gold.
We must not "fall apart", insist on husbands singing and women following, encourage each other, and survive the trough of life. A good love can be turned into a "career partner" relationship.
Quarrels over money are inevitable, but let alone divorce. Since the age of fifty, I have to find a partner, and I really delay time, and I can't find the person I want. This is the same for both men and women.
Taking the initiative to work together is the best policy.
Fourth, unite children to find a way out for the family.
Uncle Zhang, who lives in the same community as me, went to work everywhere when he was young, and when he was forty years old, he opened a wax shop.
Many people will think that things like incense and candles are memorial supplies, which are very unlucky. However, Uncle Zhang found an opportunity in it. In the past few years, he has not only opened his own store, but also taken root in this industry with his children.
Relying on the "family chain store", Uncle Zhang's family is rich.
Many families, relying on small workshops, will not be unemployed for generations. For example, tofu workshops, traditional glutinous rice processing shops, etc.
Believe that there is no end to the sky.
The meaning of life lies in continuous learning and innovation. Fifty-year-olds are older, but they have more advantages than young people in terms of life experience, mentality, and social cognition.
It's better to die than to live. If people are always looking for a way to live, then at any time, there will be a source of living water pouring into life.
If this way of living doesn't work, then turn a corner, change the way of living, and the willows will be bright.