List of high-quality authors Life is not easy, don't be too kind.
Text|Lei Lei. In the human theater, everyone is staging their own joys and sorrows and experiencing a unique life process. Some people say that life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills; Some people say that life is like a dream, an empty illusion. But no matter how you describe it, we can't deny one thing: life is not easy.
In this difficult life, we are often admonished to be kind, to be tolerant, and to be generous. Sometimes, however, excessive kindness can become a stumbling block in our path. Because, people who are too kind always habitually think about others and ignore their own feelings and needs; They are always easy to forgive others for their mistakes, but it is difficult for them to let go of their own inner pain.
So, I want to say, life is not easy, don't be too kind. This is not to become indifferent and unforgiving, but to learn to find a balance between kindness and self-preservation.
We need to learn to say no. When faced with unreasonable demands or excessive demands, be brave enough to say "no". It's not selfishness, it's taking responsibility for yourself. Each of us has a limited amount of time and energy, and we can't meet the needs of others without limits. Only by knowing how to say no can we leave more time and space to take care of ourselves and improve ourselves.
We need to learn to express our emotions and feelings. People who are too kind are often accustomed to hiding grievances and pain in their hearts and bearing them silently. However, suppressing our emotions for a long time is not only not conducive to physical and mental health, but also easy for others to mistakenly think that we have no bottom line and can be bullied at will. So, when we feel unhappy, we might as well be brave enough to express ourselves and let others know how we feel and what we stand.
We also need to learn to value ourselves. People who are too kind are always easy to regard others as more important than themselves, and work hard for other people's affairs, but neglect their own life and happiness. In fact, everyone is a unique individual and has the right to pursue happiness. We should learn to care for ourselves, cherish ourselves, and take responsibility for our own lives.
Of course, advocating "don't be too kind" doesn't mean that we become callous and selfish. On the contrary, it is for us to remain kind, not forgetting our original intentions and sticking to our principles; While caring for others, they also know how to cherish themselves; While pursuing harmony, we also dare to face conflicts and contradictions. In this way, life can be more colorful, fulfilling and meaningful.
In this long journey of life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things. Sometimes, we are hurt because of kindness; Sometimes, we offend people by sticking to our principles. But in any case, as long as we have an open heart and a clear conscience, nothing can stop us from moving forward.
Therefore, may we all maintain a moderate amount of kindness and firm faith in this practice of life; May we all be brave and brave on the road of trials and hardships; May we all become a better version of ourselves and shine a unique light in the baptism of the years.
In this complex and ever-changing society, it is important to maintain a kind heart, but it is equally important to learn to protect yourself. Because only on the premise of protecting ourselves can we better care for others and transmit positive energy. So, remember: life is not easy, don't be too kind; Learn to find the sweet spot between kindness and self-preservation.
In the days to come, may we all be loving and wise people; May we all continue to grow and progress on the road of life; May we all use our own strength to warm the world and light up the light of hope. In this way, our lives will be more exciting and meaningful.
Savor life, it is like a cup of mellow tea, which needs us to taste and feel it slowly. In the process of tasting, we will taste the ups and downs, experience joys, sorrows, and sorrows; We will understand the true meaning of life and appreciate the value of life. So, please cherish every moment and seize every opportunity; Let our life be more wonderful because of hard work, and more brilliant because of struggle.
Finally, may we all shine on the stage of life and become the brightest stars; May we all leave our own unique mark and prove our existence in the long river of time. No matter when and where, please remember: life is not easy, but as long as we face it bravely and firmly believe, we will be able to create our own wonderful chapter!