Now, it seems like everyone is fast-paced, and it seems like everyone is desperately rushing to see results right away. But, you know what? The stupidest thing in the world is to be anxious for results, and once you don't meet expectations, you start to be anxious and even make a big fuss. Really, sometimes, we have to slow down and believe that God's arrangement is much better than our own blind rush.
What is the saying? "I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. "It means that I'm so impatient that even hot tofu will burn my mouth. It's not just about eating, it's about life. The more you rush to get a result, the more you backfire, and in the end you can't catch anything.
Let's take an example, let's talk about exams. Some students, as soon as they entered the examination room, thought about what to do if they didn't do well in the exam, and they were so nervous that their palms were sweaty. And those students who have a good mentality, are not in a hurry, review step by step, and can calm down during the exam, and often have good grades.
For example, when it comes to falling in love, some people just met today, think about getting married tomorrow, and plan to have children the day after tomorrow. The result? The more anxious you are, the less solid your emotional foundation will be, and you may part ways at the slightest disturbance. And those who take their time, step by step to cultivate feelings, understand each other, and often come together in the end.
God's arrangement is always magical, sometimes you feel cornered, but you meet love around the corner; Sometimes you think you've missed an opportunity, and who knows that a better opportunity awaits you. So, don't always try to be in control, go with the flow, maybe there will be unexpected surprises.
Don't be so anxious for results, life is not a race, but a leisurely walk. Enjoy the process, believe in God's arrangement, and you will find that in fact, what he gives you is often better and more thoughtful than what you choose yourself.