Recently, I heard a gossip that advised all girls to love themselves.
A colleague had a boyfriend who had three miscarriages, and she said that her boyfriend didn't like to use condoms! She said with a big grin that the miscarriage actually doesn't hurt, and the anesthetic can be done***
Later, she broke up with her boyfriend, went back to her hometown to get married on a blind date, and when she went to the doctor for several years, the doctor said that her endometrium was very thin, and it was difficult to keep it if she was pregnant, but it was not good to do IVF! Later, she was divorced, and in the end she could only marry a man who was married for the second time and had children, and be someone else's stepmother! Girls must love themselves, don't get pregnant and have miscarriages casually, otherwise the sequelae are far beyond imagination
From a physiological point of view, miscarriage may cause damage to the endometrium, affect the normal cycle of menstruation, and may even lead to infertility. This physical injury can cause long-term pain and distress to a woman, and it can also have a profound impact on her psyche. For example, she may feel self-blame and guilt that her mistakes led to this outcome. She may fall into deep grief and be unable to extricate herself. This psychological trauma can affect her relationship with her partner, leading to a barrier in trust and communication between the parties.
Secondly, miscarriage can also have a direct impact on the couple's relationship. When a family is looking forward to the arrival of a new life, miscarriage is undoubtedly a huge blow. Both sides may have contradictions and conflicts due to disappointment and pain, and they will not be able to face this dilemma together. If this pain and disappointment is not handled properly, it can lead to the breakdown of the couple's relationship. Even if the relationship is maintained, miscarriage can become an insurmountable gap between the couple, affecting the emotional communication and intimacy between the couple.
In addition, miscarriage can also have an impact on a woman's social and family relationships. She may experience pressure and discrimination from relatives, friends, family and society, which can make her feel isolated and unable to integrate into society. This social and family relationship stress may further exacerbate the contradictions and conflicts between her and her partner, negatively affecting the marital relationship.
Women can enjoy the sweetness of love, but they must learn to protect their physical and mental health.
In the process of falling in love, women should learn to protect their bodies, which is not only respect for themselves, but also responsible for their future life. We need to be clear that being in love is not an excuse to sacrifice oneself and give up one's principles. Rather, it should be a process of mutual respect and mutual growth. Therefore, when enjoying the sweetness of love, women should be brave enough to set a bottom line for themselves, stick to their principles, and not tolerate any form of aggression and harm.
In order to better protect their bodies, women need to have a certain sense of self-protection. This includes getting to know your body, paying attention to your health, learning basic physiology, and more. At the same time, women must learn to say no and say "no", and when they feel uncomfortable or violated, they must be brave enough to stand up for their rights.
Discussion: Do you have a lot of miscarriages around you? 】