Being too real, easy to be restrained by others, because always tell everything about yourself, present it truthfully, it is easy to be exposed, you should maintain a sense of mystery, it looks unfathomable, and others will not dare to start with you easily, and have scruples.
Don't let your good look cheap, too good to talk to others will not be cherished, habits become taken for granted, and the faults are all you are used to.
Mr. Zeng Shiqiang said: "From my decades of observation, I can tell you that being too real will not end well. So you have to remember, don't be too soft-hearted, don't be too accommodating, don't be too realistic. You always think about others in everything, but you have wronged yourself, and after a long time, those people will take everything you have paid for granted."
is too kind-hearted, carries everything by himself, bears all responsibilities and consequences, for fear of offending others and angering others, so he does not dare to resist, dare not speak out, and becomes extremely timid and afraid.
People who are too real have no scheming, and they don't hide their hearts when they encounter problems, so that those with ulterior motives take advantage of the loopholes. If you are in the unit, you will definitely be criticized by the leader and blamed by your colleagues, because you did the wrong thing, and there is no second person to bear it, you are at a loss for words, and you will not argue with reason.
Others have already fled before they see that the problem is about to happen, they have already left the scene of the accident, and they do not let others see that they are the sinners who create chaos, the initiators of the trouble, and to put it bluntly, they find the problem and slip away!
And you are still stupidly staying where you are, burying your head in hard work, not knowing how to look up at the situation around you, not seeing the situation and situation clearly, blindly bowing your head to do things, not knowing how to look up at people, and being teased like a fool. In the end, you do all the bad things, and it has nothing to do with others, and you become the person who has not achieved enough and has more than enough failures in the eyes of the leader. This is the tragic end of honest people and real people.
If a person is too real, he is too kind to others, others will not care about you, remember that your kindness should be given to the right person, otherwise it will be tantamount to wasting emotions and wasting energy and time if you give it to those who do not know how to be grateful.
A kind person is also a person who is relatively weak in heart, because he is good and is bullied by others, he always thinks too well of others, and establishes friendship with others in various friendly ways. For example, between colleagues and friends, when others are in trouble and when there is a crisis, show 100% sincerity, dedicate all their energy and material resources to help each other, never care about returns, and sometimes even lose their honor and status, and get along with them.
And those who are sinister, on this ground, those who have malicious intentions, take this as an opportunity to defraud you by all means. Again and again, again and again, use you, consume you, until you are squeezed dry, and after there is no drop of oil and water, I think that you have no use value, and then, turn your face and deny people, forget all about the previous feelings, sweep them away, pat your ass and leave, and never see each other again.
And you can't take a tough attitude to accuse the other party, reprimand the other party, teach the other party a lesson, let alone beat and scold, you will never be able to do it. Then, even if you encounter a big problem, it is absolutely impossible to seek a little help from the other party, and they will ignore you no longer. Leave a kind, helpless, sad, and desperate you, and you can't even earn back a reason to seek justice! I'm so sorry for you.
They take your consistent efforts for granted, without a little gratitude and return, and are a group of white-eyed wolves, and your kindness is countered.
They will not end well in the end, deceive this, deceive that, often walk by the river, how can they not get their shoes wet, and there will always be a day when they will be deceived.
Good will be rewarded with good, evil will be rewarded with evil, and the villain's face will eventually be retributed, and that is when it is time for them to end.
Don't accommodate anyone with a kind heart, learn to be self-centered, be kind to yourself, and help those who know how to repay if you can.
Don't wronged yourself anymore, you will give in to others. Patience can't get what you want, you can only be snatched away by others!
Therefore, I sincerely advise everyone to quickly pick up the ** to defend their interests and maintain their dignity!