Some people say that in order to be free, we must live in isolation and achieve individual independence, and that the strong are lonely.
That being said, some people think the same way, but no one can completely and completely break away from the group, completely detached from the group, and it is meaningless to realize personal value, because then there is no influence, it cannot help others, it can only be regarded as a manifestation of selfishness.
Society is a group, and when you live together, you must have restraint and moderation, otherwise it will be chaotic and messy, and it will gradually go to the point of extinction!
It is true that people are pursuing freedom and yearning for a prosperous and beautiful life, but if they belong to the kind of self-enjoyment, greedy for material abundance, it is inevitably a little too lonely and selfish.
People who are not responsible, ignore the existence of others, whether they live or die, see others in the swamp and endless suffering, and do not lend a helping hand, are all extremely sinful people.
Therefore, with family, group and society, people can establish a relationship with their surroundings, as well as friendly coexistence and contact, even if there are occasional stumbles, contradictions, inconsistent ideas, disagreement, that is also an indispensable voice, social progress needs the existence of different voices, in order to stimulate things to develop in a better direction.
Everything is not one-sided, but to see the bright and beautiful side in the chaos, which needs to be set off by the bad to show the good rise.
Just like there is a problem in the human body, it is caused by its own conditions, you don't need to blame this, blame that, it's all your own fault, and if you talk about anything else, it's all far-fetched, and all the reasons are caused by yourself.
For example, you are sad, angry, sad, have a headache, have a sore foot, get sick, ......Don't blame others, you didn't regulate yourself, you didn't calm your emotions, so it's always yourself who gets hurt.
If you control yourself and arrange everything properly, I will be angry with others, and I will not be angry. When others hurt me, I don't hurt me. And how can others provoke you, how can you be provoked?
Becoming an impregnable wall, protecting oneself at the same time, but also taking into account others, is a person's greatest instinct, and the best release.
Over time, people become dependent on each other, accompany and rely on each other, and form an inseparable combination. No one can pluck himself clean and withdraw from the world unless he disappears from the world.
Groups can better help each other, support and carry each other. For example, forming a family, in the harmony of the two sides, constantly dividing and merging, going and stopping, complaining about each other, taking care of each other, showing favor to each other, and competing with each other. Looking around, eyebrows come and go, hunting for each other. These are the long-standing and common drawbacks of the combination, but there is no way to get out, and you can only find a balance in them.
In the long-term relationship, I have worn off the sharpness and dissatisfaction, because I have to continue to stick to the original intention, and I have been walking on the road of supporting each other for decades.
In the end, we are all lucky, because we meet each other and achieve each other, and we feel extremely comfortable, instead of going to the end of the world alone, being such a lonely hero.
Only when people are in harmony with each other can society be harmonious and unified. The reason for harmony is because of mutual integration, and then tolerance, no one can stay out of things, and the society needs you, me and him.