List of high-quality authors Mother-in-law stopped transferring 5,000 yuan, and as a result, she spent 80,000 yuan to buy a bracelet, and her daughter-in-law was angry, mother-in-law: Give you face?
Did I give you face? I bought the house in full, I gave 20,000 yuan for you to give birth, your mother bought a set of clothes for her grandson, you are in front of me on the left and on the right, I asked you to ask for a confinement lady for 5,000 yuan a month, but your mother came to take care of it, you said that 5,000 is not enough, does your brother often come to your house for dinner? Don't think I don't know, our family is marrying you, not your whole family, and you still kick your nose and face" 60-year-old Aunt Zhang scolded her daughter-in-law loudly, the daughter-in-law was too much, and even pointed at her mother-in-law's nose at the wine table and scolded her mother-in-law for being a loser, having money to buy bracelets, and not spending money on her grandson, what is going on between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
I'm really hot, and the birthday party was supposed to be good, but it was messed up by my daughter-in-law. This daughter-in-law is getting more and more excessive, and she looks like a bully. I am just a beloved son, my son is good at everything, but he is too obedient and obedient to his daughter-in-law, just like raising his mother-in-law.
After his son graduated from college, he found a girlfriend named Xiaohan. When my son brought Xiaohan to our house, I have to admit that Xiaohan is beautiful, with big eyes, and **fair. The son was simply obsessed with her and held her in the palm of his hand. It's a pity that Xiaohan's family conditions are average, and he has a younger brother, his father died early, and Xiaohan himself works just an ordinary administrative staff with limited income.
The son is a civil servant and has good conditions. My wife and I hoped that our son could find a better girl, but he just gave up, saying that he would not marry Xiaohan. We had no choice but to reluctantly agree.
For the sake of our son, we have already prepared the money to buy a house and want to buy them a suite near our house, which is convenient for us to take care of and for us to help take care of the children. I thought my daughter-in-law would be happy, but who knew that she didn't want to, so she had to buy a house near her mother's house. I persuaded her: "Our community is in a good location, and the surrounding schools are also very good, so it will be convenient for your children to go to school in the future, and I can also help you pick up and drop off your children." ”
But she said that our house was too far away from her mother's house and it was inconvenient. She insisted on buying a house near her mother's house, and I asked her how much she could afford to pay for it.
She said that her mother didn't have much money, and the only thing she could help was to help take care of the children. I said I could help, but she just wouldn't compromise. In order to buy a house in **, I had a lot of trouble with her. She also gave her son an ultimatum that if he did not buy a house near her mother's house, he would not get married. This can make the son anxious, and the daughter-in-law nagged all day long, or she was depressed and didn't eat or drink. When my wife saw her son like this, she was so angry that her blood pressure soared.
Later, we made a compromise and bought a three-bedroom house near our daughter-in-law's mother's house for 2.1 million, and after completing the relevant procedures, we quickly owned the house.
As time passed, my daughter-in-law was about to have a baby, and I was about to become a grandmother, and my wife and I were very happy about that. I prepared a 20,000 yuan red envelope and planned to give it to my daughter-in-law when my grandson was born. But my wife advised me to save some for other expenses in the future.
I think my wife is a little stingy, and the total pension of the two of us is 12,000 yuan, and we can't spend that much money at all. And our daughter is also married. My wife told me that although my daughter-in-law looked quiet, she was not actually a fuel-efficient lamp, and suggested that I keep some spare funds and not take out all the money, especially our pension, which is 7,000 yuan in total. My wife told me to remember this.
Finally, my daughter-in-law gave birth to a chubby grandson, and I was overjoyed and immediately took out a red envelope of 20,000 yuan and gave it to my daughter-in-law. I think she's a great joy for our family. In addition, I also gave my little grandson a 10,000 yuan meeting gift. I told my daughter-in-law that I was willing to help her take care of her little grandson, but she didn't agree. She said that she was afraid that I was too tired and would ask my confinement lady to take care of me. She said that the confinement lady has been professionally trained and more scientific, and their girlfriends have invited the confinement lady. I knew in my heart that I didn't want to be taken care of. My wife also agreed, saying that it was okay, lest you go, you would be tired of paying the money, and you might be complained about in the end.
I asked my daughter-in-law, didn't you say that your mother could come and take care of the children for you? She said that her mother had found a job, so she couldn't come, so she had to ask for a confinement lady. I also proposed that if you come to our house, I will help take care of it, but my daughter-in-law still disagrees. My son suggested that I pay for them to hire a nanny by themselves, and I said that the pension of the two of us adds up to 7,000 yuan, how much do you think is appropriate to transfer every month? My daughter-in-law said 5,000 yuan, and I promised to transfer 5,000 yuan to her every month.
Although I hired a confinement lady to take care of me, I always thought about taking care of my grandson myself. So, one day, I was excited to prepare a lot of things to see my grandson, but when I walked in the door, I was dumbfounded. originally thought that the confinement sister-in-law was taking care of it, but it turned out to be the mother-in-law. I can't help but wonder, what about the confinement lady? My daughter-in-law told me that she couldn't get used to cooking cooked by her sister-in-law, so she asked her mother to replace it. Her mother only gets 3,000 yuan a month and works as a cleaner in a supermarket. In contrast, the confinement lady asked for 5,000 yuan, so she decided to let her mother take care of her grandson. Only then did I understand the original situation, no wonder my wife often said that the daughter-in-law is not a fuel-efficient lamp. Although I felt a little bad in my heart, for the sake of my grandson's face, I chose to be silent.
In the blink of an eye, the grandson is almost three years old. During this time, my daughter-in-law repeatedly mentioned to me the problem that 5,000 yuan was not enough. Over the years, I have regularly transferred 5,000 yuan to my daughter-in-law every month. Now that my grandson is in kindergarten and my daughter-in-law can go out to work, I don't have to continue to transfer this money.
My 60th birthday is approaching, and my daughter offers to throw a celebration for me. However, the son and daughter-in-law don't seem to have that meaning. Thinking of my daughter, I didn't give her much at the beginning, and I always felt a little indebted. Not long ago, a girlfriend of mine told me that *** now is a good time to buy and add some joy to her 60th birthday. I think she has a point.
So, I asked my girlfriend to go shopping with me**. In the end, I chose two of the most fashionable gold bracelets. On my birthday, I wore it on my left and right hands, beaming with joy. At this time, my daughter-in-law also came and gave me a dress worth 300 yuan as a gift. Looking at the gold bracelet in my hand, she couldn't help but praise me for being beautiful, and then asked me how much I bought. I replied that the two cost a total of 80,000.
80,000? You're crazy! "The daughter-in-law shouted, "You spent 80,000 yuan to buy a bracelet, why did you stop my 5,000 yuan a month?" Suddenly, relatives and friends cast curious glances.
The daughter-in-law looked at the eyes of the people around her, and she was even more energetic, she pointed to my nose and said: "Everyone to judge, my mother-in-law spent 80,000 yuan to buy two bracelets, but she didn't even give me 5,000 yuan. You are too much, how can I provide for you like this? ”
I've never been afraid of offending people, I'm just afraid that others will be too good to me. Since my daughter-in-law doesn't save face for me and accuses me in front of so many people, will I be so easy to bully? I slapped the table, and my daughter-in-law was stunned for a moment, she didn't expect me to fight back, thinking that I would be softened by her words.
I want you to ask your conscience, when I bought a house, you had to insist on buying it in your mother's neighborhood. Do you think I'm going to believe you're here for our future and not for your family? The neighborhood was in a remote location, and the surrounding facilities were not good, so I objected to it a hundred times at the time. But if my son doesn't listen, he wants to mess with me, and I can't help it. In the end, for my son's sake, I reluctantly agreed. When you gave birth to a child, I said that I would take care of it myself, but you refused to live or die, so you had to ask for a confinement lady. Give me 5,000 yuan a month, but you didn't ask for it, let your mother take care of it. She took care of you, and I didn't care about it, but I still gave 5,000 yuan. Now that your grandson is in kindergarten, you can go out to work, but you still want me to give you 5,000 yuan a month. I bought the house with all the money, I gave 20,000 yuan for you to give birth, and your mother bought a set of clothes for her grandson, but you will say this to me and say that. 5,000 yuan a month, your brother often comes to eat, I know it, just don't say it. Our family accepts you, that is, accepts your whole family, and I don't have to be polite to you now.
The daughter-in-law said, "In any case, the grandson is our family." 5,000 yuan, do you plan to give it? ”
Don't give. I have done my duty, or I will take the child over and go to kindergarten on our side, and I will be responsible for paying for it. Otherwise, you will come out by yourself, you are making such a fuss now, don't want the gold bracelet. Originally, I bought two, one for you and one for my daughter, but now that you're like this, I don't need to. Girl, I'll give you both of them, keep them well. ”
The daughter-in-law said that I was too much, that my daughter was married and spilled water, and that I couldn't tell right from wrong. She still wants to snatch money from her daughter, I said you dare? This is my money, I will give it to whoever I like, and I will give it to whoever is sensible. Of course, I want to show my attitude towards those who blindly ask for money.