The wounds of the original family are not healed well, and they will be presented through marriage.
There are wounds of the original family hidden in marriage, and there will be a lot more understanding after seeing it.
With your partner's nose is not a nose, and your eyes are not eyes, congratulations, your relationship can be taken to the next level.
Our partner is a mirror through which we see ourselves that we have never seen.
The longer you are married, the more you will look at your partner. Why? Because of her, he evokes a lot of suppressed emotions from your original family.
Yangyang got up early in the morning and heard her husband training the baby:
You're still procrastinating and don't have breakfast to eat.
Tell you to get up early, you grind.
Well, it's going to be late now.
I've said you countless times, but this problem never changes.
When Yang Yang was angry and was about to stop her husband loudly, she still held back, and when they left, Yang Yang couldn't help crying, she listened to her husband's scolding of the baby, and felt very sad and sad.
I hate my husband for blaming the child like this, she feels that she really can't forgive her husband for being like this, crying and talking to herself, she is really fed up with this, the more she talks, the more sad she becomes, and before she knows it, a clear picture is presented in front of her eyes....
Probably at 7When I was 8 years old, the weather in the north was too cold, and getting up in the morning was a painful thing, so I wanted to stay in the bed more, and when I got up, I wanted to touch it here, look there, and I couldn't do what my parents wanted, and I could get up according to their requirements.
She can't forget such a scolding and look, which makes people feel scared and frightened when they think about it and hear it.
In the face of her father's scolding, her procrastination problem not only did not improve, but became more and more serious, and the more she thought about it, the slower the result became, and in the end she blamed herself.
Later, when I grew up, I left my parents, thinking that this matter would not affect me anymore, but I didn't expect to be in the child's 7At the age of 8, it happened to her again, and her husband was exactly the same as her father in that way, and she was stunned.
She saw that her emotions and criticisms of her husband were all based on these experiences when she was a child.
In an instant, her hatred for her husband melted a lot, and she decided to understand and forgive him, and was willing to see more of her emotions in other aspects.
The unfinished matters that have not been dealt with in the original family will all be carried over to their own marriage intact, presented by their partners, and if they are not dealt with, they will be presented through the children until these things are resolved.
The purpose of marriage is to make ourselves more complete, there is no healing wound in the original family, and in marriage we can open again and give us the opportunity to complete ourselves.
About the Author: Peng Jin uses psychology to heal his relationship with his husband every day, while healing and supporting the growth of students, while bringing 2 babies, family and career are not wrong. If you encounter problems or personal healing in marital emotion, leave a message in the comment area, and you can answer them one-on-one.