On the road of children's growth, there will always be a few rebellious periods. During this time, it seems as if overnight the child has become a different person, and they begin to challenge their parents, to challenge authority, and even to challenge the world. And this has also caused many parents to fall into confusion and pain.
Children in the rebellious period are like a closed door that their parents can't knock on no matter how hard they try. At this time, parents need to realize that their children's rebellion is not intentional, but their inner need for growth. Therefore, the first priority for parents is to change their role perceptions.
Once upon a time, we were supermen in the eyes of our children, they relied on us and trusted us. However, as children grow older, parents need to learn to let go and let them explore the world on their own, try and fail, and experience frustration. This means that parents need to move from authority to guide, from conductor to companion.
Parents also need to make adjustments in the way they communicate. The most disgusting thing for children in the rebellious period is preaching, so parents should learn to listen and understand their children's inner needs. Equality, respect, and care are the key words to communicate with rebellious children. Only then will they be willing to open their hearts and share their joys and sorrows with their parents.
The creation of a family atmosphere is equally important. A warm and harmonious family environment is the guarantee for children to survive the rebellious period. Parents should learn to restrain their emotions in front of their children and avoid passing on negative emotions to their children. At the same time, parents also need to increase their interaction with their children, and enhance the parent-child relationship by cooking together, watching movies, participating in activities, etc.
5.Respect and guidance for children's independence.
The rebellious period is a time of awakening for children to be independent, and they are eager to break free from the shackles of their parents and explore their own world. In this process, parents need to respect their children's independence and give them the opportunity to make mistakes, to try, and to grow. This means that parents should learn to bow their heads in front of their children, admit their mistakes, and at the same time, give their children enough love and support. Only in this way can the child find himself during the rebellious period and grow into an independent and confident person.
6.The necessity of self-growth for parents.
In the face of their children's rebellious period, parents need to realize that their own growth is also essential. In this process, parents should not only play the role of good parents, but also pay attention to their own growth and development. By learning new educational concepts, mastering the skills of communicating with rebellious children, and ways to create a harmonious family atmosphere, parents can better cope with their children's rebellious periods. At the same time, parents also need to pay attention to their own mental health and avoid passing on their negative emotions to their children in the process of educating them. Only when parents continue to grow up can they better guide their children through the rebellious period and towards the path of healthy growth.
7.Parents and children grow together.
The rebellious period is a normal phenomenon in the child's growth, and parents need to learn to adapt to this change. In this process, parents need to change their role perceptions, adjust their communication methods, create a harmonious family atmosphere, respect their children's independence, and pay attention to their own growth. Only in this way can parents better accompany their children through the rebellious period and grow together. In this process, parents should firmly believe that as long as they give patience and love, their rebellious children will grow into independent, confident and responsible people. And all this is inseparable from the dedication and wisdom guidance of parents. Let's work together to accompany our children through this special period and move towards a better future together.