The victim's family was funded, and the mother had a clear conscience
Disclaimer: This article is the original debut, any form of plagiarism will be held accountable! People are not saints and sages, but this is not a reason for us to make mistakes, nor is it a reason for us to excuse them, some mistakes can be made up, and some mistakes can never be made up.
For example, the murder of my pregnant girlfriend by my son.
My son owes a debt of conscience, and although my son has been executed, it has left me with a lifetime of guilt.
Previously, every time I published an article, I would always see such a message, to the effect that your son killed the girl in Henan, but from your words, there is no trace of self-blame and remorse, your son was executed for murder, he deserved it, but the girl was innocent! Here, I don't want to talk about my own moral character, but I just want to tell you that for more than five years, I have been working hard to "help the families of victimized girls", because I want to do my best to repay the "debt of conscience".
I first asked for help when my son was first arrested, and of course, there was too much help at that time, and I hoped that by supporting the family of the murdered girl, I would reduce my son's guilt and gain forgiveness, so that my son would not be sentenced to death.
The parents of the slain girl were particularly saddened and rejected my request.
My son and that girl, I don't know how long they have been dating, but I know that my son and her relationship, it has been good before, I bought a 148-square-meter wedding room for my son, which was also proposed by my son, according to my thoughts at the time, I hope they will get married on the National Day in 2016, but what I can't predict is that my son actually strangled each other to death in April of that year because of a quarrel with his girlfriend.
The pregnant girlfriend died, the son was executed, and everything was wiped out.
After my son was executed, I hated the other family, thinking that they didn't know what was going on (I offered to give them a million at the time), and that they had to do it in the end.
But slowly, after empathy, I gradually understood what the girl's parents were doing.
Children are the hearts and minds of parents, and when the children are gone, what is the use of more money? Therefore, letting the killers get the price they deserve has become their only thought.
It is an unpardonable sin for a son to kill someone.
In order to atone for my son's sins, I have been thinking that I should support the family of the murdered girl in my own way, but many friends persuaded me that it is better to be okay and not disturb each other, which may be the best state at the moment.
In June 2016, I spent a few days playing with a friend in Minquan County, Henan Province, where my son killed the girl.
At that time, I was eager to visit the victim's family, and with the help of a local friend, I went to the village that I had always been ashamed of.
But when I arrived in that village, I learned that the mother of the girl who was killed was hospitalized with cancer.
An uncle in that village also told us that the victim's family conditions were not very good, and that she had borrowed money from many families in the village in the six months since she was hospitalized.
Later, with the money I funded, the girl's mother had a mastectomy and was discharged from the hospital three months later.
I also added the WeChat of the victim girl's father, and the two began to have some communication.
I told the girl's father that his surname was Zhang and that he was doing business in Zhejiang, and in the process of our communication, I learned that the girl's father's surname was Li, one and a half years older than me, his son was in his first year of high school, and that his wife's savings had been spent for more than a year since his wife's illness, and that he had been working as a veterinarian before, and that he had no intention of doing anything since his daughter was killed.
Time can dilute everything, the father of the victim girl said that as his son grows older, he is facing more and more financial pressure, and he wants to go out to work, but considering the factor of age, he is worried that it will not be easy to find a job outside.
Therefore, I suggested that Brother Li could use his expertise to engage in breeding in the countryside of his hometown.
It was also under my repeated persuasion that he finally had the idea of breeding local chickens and ducks.
And I appeared as an investor.
I was in charge of sales, he was in charge of raising, and in order to dispel his suspicions, I said that the proceeds would be divided equally between the two of them.
In July 2021, he contracted 20 acres of land, and I paid for him to build a chicken coop, pave the path to the chicken coop, and install water and electricity.
In terms of sales, I have my own circle, so as long as the chickens and ducks he raises, as long as the quality is passable, sales are not a problem.
And the reason why I keep encouraging him is that I hope that he can find his own value through daily busyness, just like me, and gradually get rid of the pain of losing a child.
Like Brother Li, my soul is a person who needs to be **.
In January 2022, Brother Li started a small test and caught 500 chicken seedlings and 200 duck seedlings ......As of December 2023, Brother Li's local chicken and duck breeding scale continues to expand, and now, he has contracted 60 acres of land, and has been slaughtered six times, and his native chickens and native ducks ** have now reached 98 yuan each, and they have also accumulated more and more repeat customers.
Later, by chance, Brother Li found out my true identity, but he was not as annoyed and angry as I expected, because he felt my sincerity from my little actions.
It is in this kind of mutual help that the two of us men become people who "warm" each other.
The time of breeding, two years is coming, the night before yesterday, Brother Li calculated an account for me, he said, in two years, he earned a total of 2130,000, he offered to give me the share he said he had at the beginning, but I refused.
Brother Li is able to support himself, and he can continue to accumulate experience in the process of raising local chickens and ducks, and he can change the life of his family in this way, which is one of the things I am particularly pleased about.
In this life, the most difficult lesson to learn is forgiveness.
We both continued to learn this lesson, and I almost became his son-in-law, but eventually became his family's enemy.
This knot needs to be untied with "sincerity".
I never expected Brother Li to return the favor for his help.
* During the chat, I did not hesitate to tell him: "You don't have to thank me, because while helping you, you are also helping yourself, and you do this with a clear conscience!" ”