When a woman wants to prove a man's love for herself, she will always test whether the other party is willing to spend money for herself, or ask three times a day: "Do you love me?" What do you love about me? Do you still love me?
In fact, if you ask for a long time, you will only get a habitual answer, not necessarily a heartfelt one.
A man who truly loves you doesn't necessarily have to pay lip service to loving you, and will definitely do these three things for you.
1. Change your habits
Li Ming is a nightlife lover and has been the norm for him to party with friends late into the night every night.
Xiaohong, on the other hand, is an early education teacher who needs to wake up early every day and knows almost nothing about life at night.
This difference in lifestyle initially bothered Xiaohong.
At first, Li Ming didn't realize this.
Until one day, Xiaohong expressed her concerns to Li Ming, she said: "I really like the time we spend together, but I am worried that our living habits are too different and will affect our relationship." ”
After Li Ming heard this, he was silent. He began to think that he had to make a change for the sake of this precious relationship.
Since then, Li Ming has begun to change his lifestyle.
He cut back on his nightly gatherings, went home as early as possible, and even began to learn how to make breakfast so that he could enjoy it with Red every morning.
All these changes are in order to have more time together with Xiaohong, in order to make this relationship more stable.
A few months later, Xiaohong was pleasantly surprised to find that Li Ming had not only changed her living habits, but also become healthier and sunnier as a result.
In the world of love, actions are worth a thousand words, and changing your habits for you is the best proof of true love.
2 likes to "nag" you
In our impression, it is the parents who like to "nag" the most.
Therefore, love is in **, and the heart is in **.
In love, it's the same, a man likes to tell you in every detail, and he undoubtedly loves you.
When a person is willing to nag for you, whether it is reminding you to eat on time or caring about your physical health, there is deep love and concern behind it.
This kind of nagging, although it can sometimes feel a little annoying, is enough to make people feel loved and cared for in their daily lives.
In his heart, the health and happiness of the other party is the most important thing, and they would rather be "nagging ghosts" than ensure that the other party can be healthy and safe.
3. Give you a sense of security
A man who truly loves you will stand up to protect you when you need it, give you support when you feel lost and helpless, and cheer the most when you succeed.
His presence is like your strong backing, so that no matter what difficulties and challenges you face, you have the courage to face them.
He is able to make people feel warm in the wind and rain and brave in the face of challenges.
When a person plays such a role in your life, their presence itself is a strength that gives you the courage to face the uncertainties of life.
Therefore, when a person can give you such a sense of security, it is not only a deep affection for you, but also a beautiful commitment to the future of living together.
Love is not only a responsibility and a commitment, but also an action.
Don't forget to feel and cherish those who quietly care about us.
Because in the world of love, the most touching thing is not those exaggerated promises, but those self-evident tacit understanding and dedication.