Parents should note that there are four really effective ways to criticize when a child makes a mistake
Criticism is a hurdle that a child must go through in the process of growing up, like a storm that makes a person grow up in tribulation. But the most important thing is whether the storm is strong enough to make a child stronger. So, what kind of punishment should we give when we do something wrong? First of all, they need to understand and accept, not indifferently blame. Imagine if we started by rebuking your child in a gentle, understanding tone, saying, "I notice that something is not quite right with you lately, is there something wrong with you?" This kind of opening statement is like a breath of fresh air, making children feel that they are valued and cared for, and they will be happy to accept our guidance. Second, the target of criticism should be on the child's character, not on their personality. We can say, "Your actions have upset me because of the damage it will cause to others." In this way, children can clearly recognize what they are doing wrong without doubting their own values.
In addition, when criticizing, we should give children more positive feedback and encouragement. Make them understand that even if they make mistakes, you have to trust that they can correct them and expect them to improve. For example, "I'm sure you can learn from this mistake, and I'm sure you can." "We want to tell you clearly what your children have done wrong and how you can correct them. For example: "If you encounter something like this in the future, I think you should first calm down and then think about the consequences for others if you do this." ”
To sum up, a good review should be understandable, acceptable, concrete, and constructive. This kind of criticism can not only let children know that they have done wrong, but also give them the motivation to correct. As parents, we must learn to judge our children appropriately, so that they can walk more smoothly on the road of life. With love and understanding, accompany the healthy growth of the baby!