The heaviest burden in life is an overly calculating heart. When the heart is full of scheming, resentment will grow, as if the whole world is unfair to you, and you are the biggest victim, resulting in resentment and even pain that you can't extricate yourself.
However, the reality is that scheming only keeps people away from happiness and makes life seem full of dissatisfaction and unhappiness. Being too calculating and complaining is like stirring the mud and sand at the bottom of the tank, and in just a few strokes, the clear water will become turbid.
Don't worry too much about the unsatisfactory in life, because no one's life is completely satisfactory. Everyone has their own helplessness and imperfections, and this is the true face of life. Accepting the presence of shadows does not prevent us from appreciating the brightness of the sun. Only by looking at the world with a peaceful and open-minded attitude will the inner lake be as clear as a mirror, reflecting the beauty of all things in the world.
Sometimes, not being too obsessed with right and wrong, and learning to tolerate others is not only conducive to the harmony of interpersonal relationships, but also for one's own liberation. Because resentment will only hurt oneself in the end. Try to understand the people around you, many times, there is no absolute right or wrong, good or bad, just different positions, different choices, resulting in different words and behaviors.
When we stop thinking too much about the faults of others, stop dwelling on the people and things of the past, guard our hearts, and accept everything calmly, life will return to tranquility and beauty. I once saw a small **, put the rice into a "annoying" word, as long as the fire word is straightened, the word "annoying" becomes the word "shun". This fully demonstrates the wisdom of the ancients in making words.
Human irritability is often the distortion and complication of thinking. When we straighten out our chaotic thoughts, relax our minds, and stop thinking nonsense, the dark clouds in our hearts will dissipate and our mood will become clearer.
Everything comes from the heart, and if you look down on everything, you will feel relaxed. If you don't care, don't resent, and don't worry about the wind and frost in your heart, life will be full of sunshine and every day will be beautiful.
Let's relax between gains and losses, face the past with a smile, go with the flow, and look down on everything. As long as you have peace of mind, it is a good day.