Adolescence is an exciting and challenging time in everyone's life. It's like a process of metamorphosis, we are like young animals that have just grown soft hair, stumbling through the world, and at the same time, the relationship with our parents is also experiencing unprecedented collisions and frictions.
At this stage, we seem to have changed from a well-behaved and obedient child overnight to a "hairy child" full of rebellious spirit. We crave independence and hope that parents can give us more freedom and space. However, parents are often still immersed in the impression that we will take a detour and get hurt, so they try to restrain us in various ways and limit our movements. This kind of contradiction and conflict makes the relationship between parents and children in the family tense and delicate.
We want to pursue our dreams and try different things, but parents often impose restrictions on us out of concern and concern for us. This restriction made us feel constrained and oppressed, so we began to rebel and start working against our parents. We think this is a sign of freedom, but in the eyes of parents, it has become a symbol of rebellion and disobedience.
However, we don't really want to be enemies of our parents in adolescence. Deep down, we still crave their understanding and support. We want them to guide us when we're lost and encourage us when we're failing. We are eager to share our joys and sorrows with them, and to have a more equal and intimate relationship with them.
Parents also need to understand that we don't really want to rebel as teenagers. Behind our rebellion is often a desire for freedom and independence. What we need is their understanding and support, not endless accusations and criticism. Only when parents are willing to let go of their stubbornness and prejudices in their hearts and truly understand us and understand us, can we establish a more harmonious and intimate relationship with them.
In this adolescent period full of collisions and frictions, we need to work together with parents to find a way to get along with each other more appropriately. We need to learn to express our thoughts and feelings, so that parents can understand our inner world; At the same time, parents also need to learn to listen and understand, and give us more freedom and space. Only in this way can we get through this adolescence full of challenges and opportunities together, and let the family become our most solid backing and support.