Everyone hopes that their marriage will last for a long time, but some men do not cherish the marriage they have, and they often hurt their partners in life, and they will regret it by that time.
Don't believe it, men who often do these 3 things will sooner or later ruin their families.
Man, do you remember that you once vowed to give happiness to the people you love, but after entering the siege, everything changed, and the former vows became lies.
Take good care of your wife, after all, your wife is the person who accompanies you all your life, and you are good to outsiders. If something happens to you, can someone else help you? If you get old one day, who else can you count on? It's not this partner by my side yet. So to be kind to a woman is to be kind to yourself, remember not to do these three things to a woman.
1, no matter how much a woman pays, you don't even look at it.
In order to enter the siege with you, she is willing to go through ups and downs with you, but after entering the marriage, he found that such a marriage is not what she wants, but she did not choose to give up, but worked hard to operate.
Giving birth to children for you, but you think this is what a woman should do, a woman works hard every day to take care of the baby and do housework. You take it for granted, and you complain that other women are well-groomed, and your own wife has become a yellow-faced woman. But what have you paid for your wife, you don't have enough financial conditions for her to put on makeup every day, buy fashionable clothes, cosmetics need money, women are diligent and thrifty for you, you should feel lucky.
If you want a long-term relationship between husband and wife, then don't hurt each other, understand each other's difficulties, tolerate each other's shortcomings, care more about each other in ordinary life, and a good relationship is to tolerate each other and trust each other.
2.Mistakes made, you will never feel wrong.
Some people, he feels that he is never wrong, and the fault is also the fault of the other party, and everyone is not perfect. If you are wrong, you will not admit that it will make women more and more cold to you, such as your betrayal, which is discovered by your wife, and blame your wife for being a good wife and mother if she dresses up well, is a good wife and mother, and is as gentle and considerate as a certain wife, she will betray, not only do you not admit your mistake, but feel that it is the other party's fault, which is pushing your wife out.
No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, home is not a place to be reasonable, there is no need to argue about who is right and who is wrong, as long as there is a person who is willing to admit mistakes, the contradiction will be resolved.
3.It's good to outsiders, but it's not good for my wife.
Some men are picky about their partners, they don't care about her and are considerate, they always speak badly in front of her, you always pick on her thorns in front of her, but in front of the outside you behave honestly, desperately trying to please outsiders, you are good to others, but you are not good to your wife.
If you want a long-lasting relationship between husband and wife, you must treat your partner as a family, be kind to your partner, and she will give you a greater reward.
If you often do these three things to your woman, it is your own hands to destroy this home, disappointment is not enough to save up at one time, but disappointment again and again, so that the woman chooses to leave.
If you want a long-lasting relationship between husband and wife, don't do the above three things to women.