Accompanying children to do their homework is something that almost all school-age families have to deal with. But do you know what to do to write with your child correctly? I've talked to you about this topic a few times.
1) Guide your child to get into the learning state quickly.
In order for children to get into learning quickly, the following should be done.
First of all, parents should do things that are positively related to family construction, such as washing clothes, mopping the floor, knitting sweaters, cooking, etc., and cannot play mahjong or watch TV series;
Secondly, parents should do things related to their own improvement, such as practicing calligraphy, reading, etc., and cannot brush their mobile phones and watch small **;
Third, parents should do work-related things, such as preparing lessons, making courseware, doing copywriting, checking information, collecting accounts, etc., and cannot eat melon seeds and gossip.
Even if you are usually idle and your child's chores have been or can be done during school, you should set aside some things to do while your child is doing homework. For example, you can go out to exercise or participate in recreational activities, and arrange laundry and mopping during your child's homework.
If your child needs help with his or her homework, you are nearby or around, on call, and immediately after the help is over, move on to what you need to do.
Many parents will say, isn't this time to accompany their children to do homework, how can they have time to do other things?
This statement is not true. Doing what you should do is really accompanying your child to do homework! That's creating a positive atmosphere. With such an atmosphere, children can be in a state of "relaxed and alert", and only then can they quickly enter the learning state, and can write homework with peace of mind.
Some parents don't do anything, setting aside this time to accompany their children to do homework.
See how they are all accompanied:
Some parents keep an eye on their children's homework. If you keep your eyes on your child doing his homework, will he be able to write it? Can you do your homework well? Think about it, you are reading a book, someone is staring at you, can you still read that book?
Some parents will often disturb their children even if they are not keeping an eye on them. He would ask from time to time
Where is it written? ”
Could it be? ”
Or as often as it is said:
Write quickly, don't play! ”
Why is it so slow! ”
Especially when they find that the child is not doing well, they will speak badly to each other, and even add fists and feet, making a lot of trouble.
In this way, the child cannot be quickly put into a learning state. (To be continued).