Wang Shuo fell in love with Xu Jinglei at first sight, regardless of his status as a married woman, and even used all his resources to pave the way for Xu Jinglei.
Xu Jinglei was honest with him, walked by his side generously, and even tried to help Shen Xujia solve her marriage problems.
Although the relationship was full of controversy, their deep affection was touching.
She once passed by Wang Shuo, and then made Huang Jue and Zhang Yadong fall in love one after another.
She is a talented princess in the Beijing circle, but she has intervened in other people's feelings, and even forced the palace, and has had romances with many men, but has not yet stepped into the palace of marriage.
Many people wonder, what is her heart pursuing?
Xu Jinglei, an independent and carefree woman, her lifestyle is the envy of many people.
Some say she hasn't had enough fun, but a closer look at her past reveals that her life journey is full of stories.
From her experience, we can see that she has been in dealings with various men and is still single to this day.
Some speculate that this may be because she is taking revenge on her father and revenge on her childhood.
However, neither her own choices nor other people's speculations can change her independent personality and free and easy lifestyle.
Xu Jinglei's childhood was full of painful memories, and her father often treated her with harsh words and violence.
However, her father, Xu Zijian, was a talented man, who started as an ordinary light bulb factory apprentice and worked tirelessly to eventually become a workshop director, managing 400 employees.
His career has been through many challenges, but he has always earned the respect and recognition of others with his perseverance and outstanding talent.
He started as an apprentice in a light bulb factory, worked his way up to repairman and workshop director, and then decided to quit his job and go to sea, borrowing a huge amount of money.
After a few years of hard work, he successfully started a small neon factory and developed it into a leader in the industry with his own efforts.
Xu Zijian's resilience is unmatched, and his desire to control is also very strong.
At home, he enjoys supreme authority. Anything that displeased him, Xu Zijian's mother would not hesitate to scold or even do it.
Every time after beating someone, my mother had a complicated expression in her eyes and scars all over her body. Looking at Xu Jinglei, she always said, "If it weren't for you, I would have divorced your father a long time ago." ”
When she was a child, Xu Jinglei failed to understand the deep resentment in her mother's eyes, and only later did she gradually understand.
In addition to enduring her mother's emotional out-of-control and innocent accusations, Xu Jinglei also had to endure her father's harsh discipline.
What time to get up, what time to eat, what books to read, how many points to get on exams, and even what clothes to wear and what friends to make must be strictly observed.
When Xu Jinglei was a child, her father was very strict. He not only asked Xu Jinglei to read, but also went to Xinhua Bookstore to copy books in person.
Then, he asked Xu Jinglei to recite it backwards.
This strict education method made Xu Zijian deeply feel his father's good intentions.
Xu Jinglei had been very unhappy until she graduated from junior high school, but this was not because she did not study well, on the contrary, she became a talented girl because of her father's educational achievements.
However, behind the talented girl, her rebellion is hidden.
After graduating from high school, she was successfully admitted to Nortel and became the pride of her father's heart. However, what her father didn't expect was that Xu Jinglei became more rebellious after entering college.
After entering university, Xu Jinglei began to pursue herself. She is no longer bound by her father, socializes with various friends, and starts a relationship with Wang Shuo, who is 17 years older than her, and does not care about Wang Shuo's marriage and children, boldly goes in and out of various occasions, and even enters Wang Shuo's house to let Shen Xujia give way for her.
After Xu Jinglei intervened in Wang Shuo's family, Wang Shuo had true feelings for her.
He did not hesitate to use his connections to help Xu Jinglei develop her career, and even proposed to divorce his wife and give up custody of his daughter.
However, Xu Jinglei did not change her mind, no matter how hard Wang Shuo tried, she never looked back.
In the end, Wang Shuo divorced and became popular with Xu Jinglei, but was rejected when he proposed to her.
Xu Jinglei's childhood was filled with memories of her father's harshness and her mother's resentment, which filled her with fear of marriage.
When Wang Shuo proposed marriage, she chose to refuse.
After that, she had scandals with many men, and had a five-year relationship with Zhang Yadong, but she failed to enter the palace of marriage.
In 2016, Xu Jinglei made her relationship with Huang Lixing public.
Xu Jinglei loves Huang Lixing with all her heart, and she praises him many times for his romance and perfection, but does not mention marriage.
When asked why she didn't get married, she smiled and said, "I don't think I'm happier to get married today than I was yesterday, and I didn't expect anything from that." ”
She has a forbidden area of marriage hidden in her heart, and her father's actions have left an indelible imprint on her. Although he once apologized, the scars remained.
Xu Jinglei's choice not to marry is the biggest revenge on the past.
She wondered, "Why should we be educated to be a likable girl?" ”
Her father's strictness as a child, her mother's resentment, and her quarrels after marriage made her deeply puzzled.
She knows that she is very good, she is both an actor and a director, but behind this excellence, there is a great price.
If she had a choice, she might rather be ordinary in exchange for a happy family. If you're struggling with your past self, hopefully eventually you'll find a way.
Xu Jinglei