In the current society, blind date has become a common phenomenon, and the post-90s generation, as the main force of the blind date market, their blind date contempt chain has gradually surfaced. This phenomenon is not accidental, but reflects the values and attitudes of contemporary young people.
The core of the post-90s blind date contempt chain lies in the pickiness and screening of all aspects of the other party's conditions. At the top of this chain are those who are well-off, highly educated, have stable jobs, and are "high-quality" in appearance.
They are often highly sought after and become the "sweet spots" in the blind date market. Those who are relatively poor will be regarded as "defective" and even excluded from the blind date market.
The existence of this chain of contempt is both a social and a psychological phenomenon. From the social level, with the development of the economy and the progress of society, people's material needs and spiritual needs are constantly improving. Therefore, in the blind date market, it has become a common phenomenon to be picky and screen each other's conditions.
On a psychological level, people often want to find someone who matches them in order to gain more security and satisfaction. Therefore, in the blind date process, people will judge and choose each other according to their psychological needs and values.
However, the existence of this blind date contempt chain also brings some negative effects, it can easily lead to an imbalance in people's mentality, produce unnecessary anxiety and stress, and it may also cause some people to lose self-confidence and courage and dare not take the initiative to pursue their own happiness. Finally, it can also exacerbate inequality and division in society, leaving some people feeling excluded and marginalized.
Therefore, we should rationally look at the phenomenon of blind date contempt chain, do not pursue the so-called "high-quality" object too much, and do not give up our happiness easily.
In the process of blind date, we should pay attention to the inner qualities and personality characteristics of the other party, rather than just focusing on external conditions and material wealth. Only in this way can we truly find someone who matches us and create a better future together.