In the vast rural land, there is a strange phenomenon that makes people worry, which is more difficult to solve than the "wife shortage". This phenomenon is almost all over the rural areas of the country, and has become a problem that cannot be ignored on the road to rural revitalization. This article will unveil the mystery and depict the three strange phenomena, the reasons behind them and the solutions. Let's take a closer look at these issues and how to make the countryside vibrant and a place full of vitality and hope.
The issue of bride price in rural marriages has always been a matter of concern. In some areas, the traditional bride price custom has evolved into a "sky-high bride price", which has become a huge obstacle to young marriages. Rural families often risk their property and carry heavy debts for the sake of their sons' marriages. The woman's family saw the bride price as a symbol of status and status, which led to an increase in the amount of the bride price. What is even more puzzling is that some women demand that the man not only pay a high bride price, but also build a small villa in the countryside as a wedding house. However, these houses are often uninhabited and become unnecessarily vacant. Young couples choose to work in the cities, while the elderly stay in the countryside, leading to an increasing waste of vacant houses. How to adjust this phenomenon, reduce the expenditure of bride price, and make rational use of rural housing resources is a problem that needs to be solved urgently.
The problem of bride price is rooted in the twin pressures of traditional customs and family expectations. The soaring amount of bride price is related to uneven socio-economic development. The solution lies not only in the guidance of the best policy, but also in the rational choice of the family itself. We should advocate the values of the new era, reasonable bride price, green wedding houses, and break the dilemma of vacant houses. Family members should support each other to build a harmonious marriage atmosphere and achieve true family happiness.
Land in rural areas is the foundation of farmers' survival, but with the process of urbanization, more and more young people choose to leave the countryside and work in the cities. As a result, a large amount of rural land has been left uncultivated, and the problem of land abandonment has become increasingly serious. At the same time, grain continues to be sluggish, and farmers are caught in the dilemma of "the more you plant, the more you lose". Land abandonment not only wastes valuable resources, but can also lead to food crises. If it is not solved in time, it will lead to a shortage of food in rural areas and affect national food security.
The formation of land abandonment involves the transformation of the social and economic structure, and it needs to be solved at the source. ** Supportive policies can be introduced to encourage young people to return to their hometowns to start businesses, carry out land transfer, and improve the efficiency of rural land use. At the same time, we should strengthen agricultural technology innovation, improve crop yield and quality, and reduce planting costs. Farmers should establish a sense of protecting land resources, actively participate in land development and protection, and jointly build a sustainable agricultural ecosystem.
With the exodus of young labor, there are a large number of empty nesters and left-behind children in rural areas. These elderly people are lonely guarding their old homes, while their children leave home to work in order to make a living, and they have limited time to return home. Left-behind children lack family care and education, and are prone to problematic behaviors. These problems not only affect the stable development of rural areas, but also have a huge negative impact on the whole society.
Solving the problem of empty nesters and left-behind children requires the joint efforts of families, society and many parties. Support mechanisms can be established to provide social services and accompany the elderly and left-behind children. The society should strengthen care and volunteer services, so that the empty nesters can feel warmth, and the left-behind children can receive attention and care. Family members should strengthen communication, enhance understanding, and do their best to accompany the elderly and children at home, so as to create a harmonious family environment.
The three strange phenomena faced by rural areas, bride price expenditure, land abandonment and the problems of the elderly and left-behind children, are the problems that need to be solved urgently on the road of rural revitalization. ** All parties in the family and society should form a joint force to promote the effective solution of the problem. Only in this way can we rejuvenate the rural areas and achieve a well-off life in an all-round way and the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. Let us pay attention to, support and develop the countryside together, and work together to build a better rural dream.