When you encounter school bullying, you are excluded and deceived by those around you; When you encounter PUA in the workplace, are marginalized, and have ideals but do not meet talents, look at Liu Yuxi thousands of years ago, how can he still be "ten thousand trees in front of the sick tree" after "twenty-three years of abandonment"?
Liu Yuxi's life has been full of ups and downs, but he can still maintain his heart and live in the moment, without sadness, resentment, and happiness.
He already had a poetry name at the age of 19, was admitted to the Jinshi at the age of 21, was reused at the age of 31, participated in the national reform, and was deposed in less than half a year, and has been demoted many times since then. At the age of 54, he was recalled to Beijing again and regained the recognition of the imperial court until his death at the age of 71. In ancient times, sixty sixties, seventy years of human life were rare, and many people were degraded and did not wait for the moment to be activated again. And Liu Yuxi was able to suffer such a painful setback in life, he did not slump, he was at ease in the time when he was degraded, and he still did not change his original intention after recovering again, thanks to his proactive mentality adjustment.
Liu Yuxi Liu Yuxi's mentality adjustment includes several aspects, one of which is to socialize with friends who are compatible with character. Even if the two places are separated, they can still sing and express their hearts through poetry.
Thousands of sails on the side of the sinking boat, and ten thousand trees in front of the sick tree" This famous sentence is in the works of Liu Yuxi and Bai Juyi. Let's take a look at this immortal psalm:
"Reward Paradise Yangzhou First Meeting Banquet Gift".
Bashan Chushui was desolate, and he was abandoned for twenty-three years.
The nostalgic empty chant hears the flute, and the countryside is like a rotten Ke person.
Thousands of sails passed by the side of the sinking boat, and ten thousand trees were spring in front of the sick tree.
Listen to the song of Jun today, and temporarily rely on the spirit of a glass of wine.What does that mean? My good brother Bai Juyi, I saw you at the banquet in Yangzhou and received the poems you wrote, I am very happy. I have been in the desolate areas of Sichuan and Hubei for twenty-three years, and these twenty-three years have been abandoned and forgotten by the imperial court. In the process of being degraded, I heard the news of the death of my old friend, and I only recited the "Thinking of the Old Fu" composed by the ancients to express my thoughts, but what is the use of that? I feel that things are wrong. However, there are still thousands of sails racing next to the sunken boat, and in front of the dead wood that died of illness, there is a beautiful scenery of thousands of trees competing for spring. Today I listen to you singing, so with this song and this wine, I will add a little energy to myself!
It can be seen that Liu Yuxi has his own pain? Yes. He was well aware that he had been demoted for twenty-three years, perhaps forgotten by the imperial court. At the same time, he also bears the pain of the departure of many old friends, things are not people, the prosperity and beauty of the past, and the spring breeze and horseshoe disease are all fleeting. But the past has passed, the shipwreck is not able to float again, and the sick tree is also very difficult, but the spring scenery does not lose its due vitality due to the temporary decay and decadence, everything is developing and changing, do not indulge in the pain and sadness of the moment, and believe that there is new hope waiting for us.
Liu Yuxi's mentality adjustment was not achieved overnight, but stemmed from his deep understanding of the world and his firm belief in himself. He understands that life is like the four seasons, there are spring, summer, autumn and winter, there are winds and sunshines, and there are storms. Encountering difficulties, being excluded, and being deceived are only part of life, not the whole story. He firmly believes that no matter how much wind and rain is encountered, spring will always come as scheduled, and everything will recover and be full of vitality.
His belief is not groundless, but stems from his love for life and expectations for the future. He loved life, he loved nature, he loved poetry, he loved the people. His poems are full of praise for life and concern for the people. He looks forward to the future, to the prosperity of the country, and to the happiness of the people. His expectations are not in the air, but based on his deep understanding of reality and his unwavering belief in the future.
Therefore, when he encounters difficulties, he can actively adjust his mentality and face them calmly. He understands that the predicament is only temporary, and as long as he persists, he will always see the light of day. His way of adjusting his mentality is not only the embodiment of his personal qualities, but also the practice of his philosophy of life.
For us, Liu Yuxi's life experience and his way of adjusting his mentality are undoubtedly a revelation. When we encounter difficulties, we can also be like him, maintain a positive attitude and face it calmly. We can be like him, love life, love the future, and look forward to a better version of ourselves. Like him, we can use poetry to express our love for life and anticipation for the future. Because we know that no matter how much wind and rain we encounter, spring will always come as scheduled, and everything will be revived and vibrant.
I hope that friends, no matter what setbacks they encounter, will always believe that their abilities will not change due to external evaluation. Having the determination to live in the moment, the courage to never give up, and waiting for the right time is the best mentality in life.