Let's talk about the elderly here, recently on a certain platform is very popular, there is an 88-year-old professor of Peking University, his idea is simple, what to say?
No surgery, no intubation, no resuscitation, especially no admission to the intensive care unit. "Why? The old man said that he was so old, and if he died sooner or later, he would suffer by rescuing him, and secondly, it would be a waste of national resources, so it would be better to leave it to the young people who really needed it.
The old man's words became popular directly on the Internet, and nearly 300w netizens liked and supported them.
After all, the old people's thinking is really different from the past.
In the past, every family thought that "living a long life" was the best blessing for the elderly.
But now, more and more elderly people are beginning to reflect, does longevity equal happiness? The answer given by many elderly people is: not necessarily.
For example, there is an old man who has a cerebral infarction and is admitted to the hospital and saves his life, but he has to be taken care of 24 hours a day in the future, and he lives like a "living dead".
The daughter insisted, but the doctor knew in his heart that although the life was prolonged, the quality of life of the elderly did not improve, but was more painful.
This makes people think, shouldn't we think about it from a different angle, what will the elderly themselves think about this problem?
The elderly may be hesitant to embarrass their children. But deep in their hearts, who doesn't want to live with dignity?
Let's talk about the current pension problem, it is difficult. Children want to be filial, but there is only so much they can actually do to help.
Especially now, there is only one child in a family, both old and young, and the pressure is great. If you want to take care of the elderly wholeheartedly, the conditions are really harsh.
Although there are many ways to provide for the elderly in society, everyone's situation is different, and it is not easy to find a suitable way for yourself.
Nursing homes may be an option, but the caregivers there are also human beings, and they also have limits to the care and care they can provide to the elderly, and sometimes it is even more difficult to ensure that the elderly "survive" and "live well".
Therefore, the elderly are now more inclined to the pension concept of "treating minor illnesses, serving life when major illnesses, and never rescuing".
They felt that it might be best if they could die a little more easily and without causing trouble to their children.
In the face of retirement, everyone must be prepared.
Not only material preparation, but more importantly psychological preparation.
If you want to live a good life in old age, the key is to have a good attitude, find a lifestyle that suits you, maintain a healthy body and a positive attitude, so that you can enjoy your old age freely without relying on others.
Therefore, you have to rely on yourself when it comes to pension.
Only by planning and preparing early can you make your later life more beautiful and dignified.
No matter what, we all have to look forward and cheer for our old age!