Does a man who has cheated on the same mistress many times mean that he has true feelings for this mistress?
Maybe many women will think that every time a cheating man breaks up with a mistress, he will never forget the mistress, and he will turn back to the mistress at the first opportunity, and he must have feelings.
But Su Yue looks at the other side, that is, why does a cheating man choose to abandon Xiao San every time.
How many times he rejoins Xiao San means how many times this man has abandoned Xiao San.
When the extramarital affair was not discovered and the wife did not make trouble, the cheating man fell in love with the mistress.
Once discovered, the wives made a fuss, and the cheating man immediately sacrificed his extramarital affair with the mistress to coax his wife.
How can this kind of cheating man love Xiaosan? If a man really loves the mistress, he will never abandon the mistress again and again.
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The reason why a cheating man cheats on the same mistress many times can't escape three reasons.
On the one hand, it is because the punishment given by the wife is not enough.
After many wives find out that a man is cheating, they ask the cheating man to break up with the mistress.
If the cheating man's attitude is very good, he will break off with the mistress directly.
Maybe the wife will choose to easily forgive the cheating man, or give a small punishment.
The cheating man didn't pay much for cheating, and my wife's punishment was not strong enough.
Then this man is very easy to cheat again, this is the reality.
Therefore, the wife who has been cheated on must not be easily forgiven, otherwise she will be constantly cheated on in exchange.
You have to make the cheating man pay, and if he cheats once, you have to take out the momentum of breaking the net.
The cheating man is well aware of the seriousness of his wife's approach to cheating.
If he cheats again, he may pay a more painful price, so he doesn't dare to continue cheating.
In addition, the wives should not let the mistress be too happy.
The fact that the cheating man was able to cheat on the same mistress again proves that the mistress didn't pay anything.
Xiao San felt that the receipt in the extramarital affair was greater than the pay, so she was willing to be with the cheating man again.
The wife neither punishes the cheating man, nor does she treat the mistress badly.
Two people betray one and hurt the other, and then nothing comes at a cost.
The wife is naturally a soft persimmon that can be pinched at will in their eyes.
The wives themselves are not angry, and the cheating man and the mistress will naturally not let go easily.
On the other hand, it is because the mistress does meet the needs of cheating men.
If a cheating man is willing to cheat again, he must have gained a lot from his extramarital affair.
For example, cheating men are for physiological needs, and the mistress satisfies the cheating man.
And when they broke up, the mistress also told the cheating man that he could find the mistress if he had any needs.
The wife's side didn't treat the cheating man well, and the memories left by the extramarital affair were all good.
So once in marriage, the cheating man has a need again, and he will still go to the mistress.
So the wives want to completely solve the extramarital affair, and you have to let the cheating man and the mistress have problems.
Cheating men are hurt in an affair and feel that the affair is not so good.
If you continue to cheat, it will not be more beneficial than disadvantageous for the cheating man.
The cheating man will be reluctant to be with the mistress again, even if the mistress takes the initiative.
People will always do things that are good for them, even if they know they are wrong.
Only when this matter is not good for him, or even unfavorable, will he know his mistakes and correct them, instead of insisting on continuing to make mistakes.
On the other hand, Xiao San also got what she wanted.
Why is Xiao San willing to rekindle his old relationship with a cheating man after being abandoned again and again.
Most juniors are not stupid, and juniors will not really be trapped by love.
Because he loves cheating men, after being abandoned, he still chases after cheating men.
It's that the junior got the benefits and got what she wanted.
The junior is because of interests, because of benefits, so he is willing to cheat on men.
And Xiao San also has no true feelings for the cheating man, so he doesn't care that the cheating man abandons her again and again.
Even this junior may not have thought about being on top, he just wanted to get benefits.
However, cheating men may not be able to see this clearly, and wives can debunk it appropriately.
The cheating man and the mistress continue to have an extramarital affair, and there is no love factor.
It's just that they have their own ghosts, and they feel that they can take advantage of it and get what they want.
But he is willing to use the name of love, and he feels that he has deceived the other party.
Wives can seize on this and debunk the hypocritical feelings of cheating men and mistresses.
Create a dispute between the interests of a cheating man and a mistress, and take the opportunity to completely resolve the extramarital affair.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that if a cheating man doesn't love Xiaosan, it doesn't mean that he will love his wife.
Cheating men are just using such means of coaxing on both sides to maintain marriage and extramarital affairs in parallel.
The juniors couldn't tell the difference, and they stupidly believed again and again that the cheating man loved her.
The wives should be sober, if he doesn't break off with Xiao San completely, it proves that he is not sincere enough to his wife.
Cheating men know their mistakes and do not change them, and if they make mistakes repeatedly, wives should have a trade-off.
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