In fact, many of us live our lives in a chaotic way, repeating every day of life with low quality, except for the passage of time and aging, but we find that we have achieved nothing. When I suddenly realized, I found that most of my life had gone through, and it was not until I encountered a mid-life crisis that I suddenly realized. But in fact, 40 years old is not too late.
1. A life with no one to lead the way, even if you start at the age of 40, it is still too late
If the family of origin is not good, there is no one to guide the way. Or, even when someone shows us the way, we always go our own way. When we don't hit our heads and break the bloodstream, our lives have not awakened. Or awakened, but without action. Repeating yesterday's life every day is the taboo of life.
Let's look at the latecomers who are big bloomers. For example, Zong Qinghou, he also started his life at the age of 42, and Ren Zhengfei also started his own business in his forties. In fact, when we are forty years old, our thinking will awaken.
If we are already forty years old, we first ask ourselves what we want. It is true that at the age of forty, you can no longer have the mentality of a part-time worker, after all, it is a dead end. Because you can't change the current environment, but you can change yourself.
It's not about joining a company, or changing companies. It's about thinking about what I want and what I want to be. Think about down-to-earth things. If you're short of money, go earn it. If you're not good at eloquence, go for it.
Sometimes, people can change the rules.
As long as you're willing to start, it's still too late.
2. We live in a great era, and at the age of forty we are breaking ourselves from within and regaining our lives
Yes, because forty years old, we are sober enough. When a person is forty years old, he suddenly realizes that the second half of his life seems to have a second life. This second life should be firmly grasped and used for one's own use. First you have to act.
As long as you start to realize that you live for yourself, go to books, exercise, and make money, you will find that you are very good.
Reading books is to expand the mind and open up cognitive limitations. In fact, in our life, we know only a limited number of people, and you can't have access to excellent resources, and the big guy may not take you to play. Then create your own, books are the source of everything we can make up for, it sums up the excellent and successful experience, it provides us with thinking and thinking.
Why do I say that we live in a great age? In fact, many people's so-called midlife crisis is just because of lack of money. If you are unemployed, you are sad because you have no money, you are teaching in colleges and universities and writing hard to get a project, you are in debt because you have no money, and you are unhappy because you have no money. Of course, it doesn't mean that you are happy when you have money, but it does allow you to solve 99% of life's problems.
You need money to see a doctor, you need money to walk, you need money to send your children to school, you need money if you want to have a good life. It's like you need money to beat the game, in addition to technology. Therefore, putting away all our emotions, what love, what friendship, what interpersonal relationships are. You don't have any money, and none of this has anything to do with you. You don't even have the capital to choose life.
So, work hard to earn money. How do you get rich?
I just said that this is a great era, and it's not that you have a life crisis, your life is over. This Internet age has provided us with many possibilities. The following is my summary of the forty years old, and our lives can still be turned around.
Think about what we spend the most time on every day: mobile phones. Your phone is your tool for turning the tables. There are many items you can try. It costs 0 to write an article, so why not do it. Live streaming or spontaneous delivery also generates revenue.
3. When you have money, you have the right to choose your life
When you have money, you can't start a profitable company. What is a business that makes sure you don't lose money, the network business of personal IP, one person can, without any cost and loss. When you have money, you have the right to choose your life.
For example, if I write an article, and I polish my article, will my money come? I'm writing **, and I'm trying to improve myself. These have nothing to do with how old you are, as long as you are willing to export, you have an income. With an income, can you choose the life you want?
When you don't have money yet, you land to make money. Remember, it's not about starting a business, it's about doing projects that must make money.
Hotspot Engine Program