Walking in the world, it is impossible to avoid the core proposition of "wealth". It was recorded in the "Historical Records": "If the warehouse is full, the etiquette is self-evident; If you have enough food and clothing, you will judge yourself from honor and disgrace. This sentence profoundly reveals the profound influence of the material foundation on the spiritual realm.
We all look forward to being rich in the material world and full in the spiritual realm. In fact, it is only when the basic needs of life are fully met that people can pursue a higher level of spiritual enjoyment and joy of life.
For a woman, every penny in her wallet carries the confidence and dignity of life, and contains the autonomy and independence of life. This wealth not only represents economic wealth, but also the breadth and tenacity of the spiritual world.
To judge whether a woman is really rich, you can get a glimpse of the clues from the following three aspects.
The size of the magnanimity depends on the cultivation
Xue Xuan, a famous thinker in the Ming Dynasty, once said: "Only a broad heart can tolerate others, and only profound virtue can carry all things." ”
A lack of tolerance often means that you don't have the courage to achieve great things. If a woman can accept the unreasonable actions of others and calmly deal with the vagaries of the world, then she will be able to broaden her mind in the tempering, cultivate noble qualities, and then leisurely control the beautiful journey of life.
When he was young, Yang Lan was lively and smart, and he was an indispensable little assistant in the family. Once, she took the initiative to ask Ying to go to the market to buy tender tofu and waited patiently in line for a long time. However, because the young Yang Lan didn't know about it, and she was in a hurry when she went out, when it was finally her turn, she only handed over the coins.
In the face of the salesperson's impatience and bad tone - "Do you want to buy tofu without food stamps?" —Yang Lan couldn't help but feel hurt in his heart. Although her parents had always taught her to be kind, she was still disappointed by the salesperson's behavior. Back at home, Yang Lan, who was full of grievances, told his mother in detail about the incident and indignantly expressed his dissatisfaction with the salesman.
However, the mother did not follow Yang Lan's emotions to blame the salesman, but smiled and stroked her head, and said calmly: "Child, don't be angry, take the food stamps and go to buy tofu, maybe the salesman aunt has encountered something unsatisfactory, so her attitude is not good, and we don't have to blame her for this." ”
Behind the mother's indifferent words, there is a broad mind that embraces others and a lofty bearing to deal with the world calmly. Although she was not born in Zhong Mingding's family, she lived a rich and comfortable life in the second half of her life, and successfully cultivated an outstanding daughter like Yang Lan.
As the "Book of Exhortations to the Guest" said: "Mount Tai does not reject any soil, so it can achieve its majestic grandeur; The rivers and seas are not picky about trickles, so they can achieve their profundity and vastness. In the same way, the pattern and quality of life also lie in tolerance and acceptance.
Those who are narrow-minded are often too sensitive and suspicious, and they are too narrow-minded to bear the slightest grievance and injustice, so it is difficult for the boat of happiness to anchor safely in the lake of their hearts.
And the real rich women will not fall into trivial calculations because of the short-term loss of interests, nor will they be haunted by a one-time payment.
This is not only a kind of broad-mindedness, but also a kind of inner cultivation, which comes from the calm and self-confidence given by money, and is an indispensable pattern in the process of obtaining wealth.
If you can look into the distance, you will not be bound by the troubles in front of you; If there is profound wisdom and tolerance in the heart, the magnificence and tenacity of the mountains and rivers will naturally be revealed between the eyebrows.
In a woman's life, it is better to rely on others than to be independent, and it is better to improve the external environment than to cultivate the inner world. Only by cultivating the open-mindedness and elegance of the heart can we accumulate a lifetime of smoothness and tranquility.
The size of the ability depends on the confidence
In the magnificent picture scroll of China's modern history, there is a woman who shines with the light of independence - Sheng Aiyi, who is known as "Miss Sheng Qi", is the daughter of Sheng Xuanhuai, a prominent Shanghai tycoon. She not only carries the glory of her family, but also writes a legendary chapter with her outstanding intelligence and tenacity.
Sheng Aiyi, who has been brilliant since childhood, grew up in a strong cultural heritage and rigorous family education, not only diligent and studious, but also proficient in English with outstanding language talent, and has shown extraordinary ability and talent at a young age.
At the end of her sixteenth anniversary, the death of her father Sheng Xuanhuai made Sheng Aiyi mature rapidly, and she resolutely took on the important task of assisting her mother in managing the huge family's business, which made her significantly improve her knowledge and ability. However, with the death of his mother, the Sheng family lost its mainstay and fell into a state of chaos and disorder for a time.
At this time, around the distribution of the family inheritance, Sheng Aiyi's brothers tried to deprive her of her due rights due to greed and selfish desires. Although the social atmosphere at that time was generally biased towards male power, according to the laws and regulations of the ** period, unmarried women also had the legal right to inherit property. In the face of the treachery of her relatives and the pressure of the world, Sheng Aiyi did not give in, but chose to take the law as the first and bravely filed a lawsuit against her three brothers and two nephews, vowing to fight for the rights and interests of unmarried women, including herself.
In this major struggle for gender equality, Sheng Aiyi skillfully elevated the dispute over her personal legacy to an issue of concern to the whole society, which resonated widely. **On that day, the courtroom was crowded and full, and this highly influential property dispute case attracted countless attention, which can be called a judicial event.
In the end, Sheng Aiyi turned the tide with her firm determination and outstanding wisdom and successfully won the lawsuit, achieving the first landmark case in history of a woman fighting for the right to inherit property. Her victory was not only a defense of personal rights and interests, but also a milestone for Chinese women at that time and even in later generations to fight for equal rights, and opened a new era for women in the field of property inheritance.
Mr. Liang Wendao once profoundly elaborated a philosophical sentence: "It is very important for a woman to have the ability to live independently and have an inner wealth that cannot be taken away by others." ”
Life is like a vast ocean, and things are changing rapidly and unpredictable. No one can guarantee a lifetime of sailing on a calm and smooth sea, and the foundation of how to survive and achieve success in the sudden challenges of wind and rain lies in one's own tenacity and strength.
Mastering a skill that is sufficient to survive is far more valuable than going through hardships to seek refuge and support from others.
Money, as a spiritual being, always tends to flow to those who know how to harness and cherish it.
For women, the ability to create wealth and earn living capital is the greatest confidence to cope with the impermanence of life.
A woman who is both talented and good at making money, no matter where she is, can carve out her own world and live a unique life.
The size of the pattern depends on the future
Mr. Lin Yutang once praised affectionately: "In the vast group portrait of the characters in "Dream of Red Mansions", I am especially devoted to the role of Jia Tanchun. Similarly, the author Cao Xueqin also gave him a deep preference.
The women in "Dream of Red Mansions" are picturesque and have their own rhymes, and among the dazzling twelve golden hairpins, Tanchun is undoubtedly the most eye-catching pearl. However, the fate of most golden hairpins is like a flower, or like Daiyu, or like a beautiful jade, or like a wonderful jade to escape into the empty door, or like Li Kun silently endure the hardships of life, and Tanchun is a rare one who has found a happy home in this tragic torrent.
An in-depth analysis of Tanchun's life trajectory, her mind and vision predict her future direction. Living in the boudoir of the feudal era, Tanchun did not indulge in the sorrow of his daughter's family, but paid attention to the rise and fall of the family with a keen eye.
During her tenure in charge of the Grand View Garden, she demonstrated outstanding leadership and innovative spirit, practicing economy, eliminating redundancies, and implementing innovative measures such as reducing repetitive expenses and introducing contracted operations, which greatly saved the financial burden of Jiafu. While everyone around him was still intoxicated with the prosperity and glory in front of him, Tanchun had already seen the crisis of corruption and decay hidden beneath the gorgeous appearance of Jiafu.
In the face of irreversible decline, Tanchun did not fall into panic and despair, but chose to marry overseas with a calm and rational attitude, although it meant being separated from his relatives.
However, it was this choice that not only paved the way for his future, but also found strong support for the crumbling family. Tanchun's wisdom of life and overall situation have been vividly reflected in this magnificent turn.
In the passage of time, the Jiafu with a hundred years of glory suddenly overturned, and the sisters in the garden in the past went their separate ways like stars, but Tanchun stood outstanding in the troubled times, and was still bathed in the peak glory of that era.
Zeng Guofan is well versed in world affairs, and he once said: "Those who want to achieve great things must first have a pattern in mind." ”
The width of a person's horizon determines the height of its pattern, and the grandeur of the pattern directly shapes the broad road of the future. Everything in the world is busy, nothing more than to come for profit, for profit, and the course of life is constantly forging ahead between this gain and loss.
Short-term wealth may come from a moment of luck, but lasting wealth and glory depends on the depth of the heart.
The world is like chess, unpredictable, often trapped in the chess game loses, and the one who breaks the game wins.
Wise women are good at examining the world around them with keen insight, penetrating the appearance to explore the essence of things, so as to prevent problems before they happen, calmly break the situation, and maintain the prosperity and prosperity of life.
Resting on one's laurels, following the old path, with a narrow vision, and only focusing on the trivial things in front of you, even the richest glory and wealth will eventually dissipate like a cloud of smoke.
Only by taking a long-term view, broadening the order of magnitude, not being stumped by the trivialities of life, and firmly moving towards the ideal stage in our hearts, can we grasp the initiative, win the future, and let the wealth and glory continue forever.
Zhang Ailing once said: "I love money, but because I have not experienced its hardships and tribulations, I don't know its shortcomings, but I know its benefits." ”
Money, like the most solid and real support under the sun, never deceives, never betrays, and consistently provides you with solid support.
However, just as only by becoming a tall sycamore can a phoenix be attracted to inhabit; Only by incarnating into the vast sea can the water of ten thousand rivers gather. Similarly, a truly wealthy woman not only has the courage and courage to create wealth, but also has the wisdom and ability to protect wealth, and behind this, it is inseparable from the tolerance of the world, the ability to excel and the power given by the far-sighted pattern.
Here, we sincerely invite you to light up the "attention", may your heart be full of love, and your pocket will be full of wealth. In the days to come, let us uphold the spirit of independence, live for ourselves, know how to work hard, and how to live better. Please share, inherit and carry forward the excellent traditional Chinese culture!