Xiao Tao is leaving the imperial capital, as a native of the bewitching capital, coming to the imperial capital may be the beginning of disappointment.
Little Peach asked me, "Am I wrong?" ”
Yikes. I sat across from her in surprise as I drank milk tea.
Originally, I was going to be friends, but Xiao Tao arrived first, and we each ordered a cup of milk tea.
Xiao Tao asked me a little angrily: "I think that love is pure, love is pure, and love is loyal." Why are you men cheating on me, can't men who love pure love in this place of confinement do it? ”
I was speechless, I was just passing by, what does this have to do with me, looking at the tears shaking in Xiao Tao's eyes, and the huge breasts, I want to ask about the situation.
It turns out that Xiao Tao, 30 years old this year, came to the imperial capital mainly to find his ideal other half, but in 3 years, he changed 7 boyfriends, 3 split his legs, 1 has a family, 1 is cheating money, 1 is not married, and one is more suitable, but unfortunately it is a girl, Xiao Tao broke up with her in a month.
Am I wrong? Xiao Tao asked.
Can't say that. I explained, "You know, if you look at love as a big mountain, and you stand on the top of the mountain, and you see clean clouds, and you think that love is as clean as white clouds, but there are fewer people who also see clean clouds, and you can't make people halfway up the mountain think that the clouds are clean, because they can't see the clouds, they don't know what the clouds are?" Think about it. ”
Xiao Tao pondered for a while and said, "You mean to say that love is a scarce commodity, and not everyone can get it. ”
I said, "It can be understood in this way, and like you, this person who is completely free materially, it is normal for you to have the innocent pursuit of love, but everyone else is still halfway up the mountain, if you can compromise and seek to go down to the halfway up the mountain, and feel the hardships of climbing the mountain with others, it is estimated that you have children now, but your own arrogance does not allow you to go down the mountain, so you can only empty sadness." ”
Xiao Tao said: "Is it wrong for me to pursue pure love, pure love? ”
I said, "There's nothing wrong with that, but it's a little hard for you to always be halfway up the mountain searching for the people you want, just like you're always looking for a breath of clean air on a smog day." ”
Xiao Tao suddenly understood, wiped her nose and said, "All men in the world are the same." ”
I said: "Look at it, the aunt who cleans at the door, looks a few years older than you, maybe she still has children to raise, she has worked hard for a year, she may earn 30,000 yuan, how do you think she should live, 98 yuan of milk tea you said to buy it, but if you only have 30,000 yuan to spend a year, will you still buy this cup of 98 milk tea?" Do you know how much the living expenses of the courier and the takeaway brother are how many yuan a day? Do you know how you can live if you only have 10 yuan a day? You don't know, you don't have that kind of life experience, you think this store is very low, you almost don't come here, but do you know how many people haven't drunk milk tea? Who should understand love, understand love. ”
Xiao Tao said: "Because they don't have enough cash flow to make ends meet, can't they love very purely?" ”
I said, "No, it's because they don't have enough cash to make ends meet, so they have to cash out right away and live, and they don't have time to think about how to improve their cash flow, which is manifested in the fact that they can't see themselves, let alone others." ”
Xiao Tao asked, "What do you say?" ”
I said, "Because they don't have cash, they can only cash out on their own time, go hungry to make money, then fill their stomachs, then rest and relieve fatigue, and then they are hungry again, and then they go to make money again." So repeatedly, their brains don't have enough energy to think about what love is, they can realize everything in order to survive, eat, and live. Therefore, they don't know who they are, they don't know who others are, and whoever blocks them from eating, they will knock down whom. Love is a kind of selfless giving, but they don't have the wealth of material and time, and it is difficult for them to give to others, even if it is to listen to others quietly, recognize others, and support others. You also ask them to love purely, isn't it a bit difficult to be strong. ”
Xiao Tao said: "If everyone becomes rich, is it pure that everyone will love." ”
I said, "Yes, that's communist society, we've been pursuing." ”
Xiao Tao was a little happy and said, "Actually, I'm not wrong. ”
I said, "Yes, you are not wrong, it's just that the uneven distribution of resources in this society is also the main contradiction in the current society." ”
Xiao Tao said: "Come with me and play my boyfriend." ”
I smiled and said, "No, our two life missions are different, and there is no intersection." ”
Xiao Tao said demandingly, "What can I give you?" ”
I said, "Be nice to your family and friends, and don't be too self-righteous. ”
Xiao Tao nodded and said, "Is there anything else?" ”
Nope. Xiao Tao said, "I'm leaving." Little Peach left without looking back.
This kind of rich, strong, demanding, self-righteous eldest sister can't wait, not so much the purity of her love, but the purity of her hope that others love her, in her applause, don't challenge her authority, she is the female emperor who controls the life and death of others in the family, only she is respectful, and she can't serve. I said to myself.
Why no one loves purely, because others are not easy to deceive, we all want others to be pure and selfless to me, and not to others, and when you do it so selflessly, you want the other party to give you the same return, the same selflessness, this is not a kind of selflessness, parents' love for their children, is instinctive and selfless, but when you harm their interests, parents will also leak their fangs, 100% for the people can not be done, then 50% There are a few people who can serve the people, so I'd better work hard.