In life, we can often see some middle-aged people who don't seem to like to talk very much, and they don't mix with people much.
This situation is actually quite common. When you reach middle age, there is a lot of pressure, some people may not have a very smooth career, and some may have family conflicts, which may make people feel depressed.
Downfall does not mean failure, but only temporary unhappiness.
Everyone can go through such a time, the key is to have the support of friends and family, and to have a strong heart.
Some people were suddenly laid off because of the bad environment, and they cleaned up their desks silently, full of helplessness;
Some people can't sleep at night because of the pressure of the mortgage, looking at the ceiling, silently calculating the monthly expenses in their hearts;
Some people look at the contract in their hands because of the sudden housing price, and they are at a loss, and they are less firm than before;
There are also people who are in urgent need of a large amount of money at home, and they are running around asking for help, but it is difficult to speak, with a reluctant smile on their faces.
Let's talk about this "few words, lost" thing. This topic, to put it bluntly, is to talk about.
At these times, people often choose to say less, not because they don't want to say it, but because they can't change anything when they say it, or they don't know how to say it.
But in fact, this state of few words often does not make the problem disappear, but makes people feel more lost and lonely.
It's like groping in the dark, knowing that there might be light ahead, but not knowing how to walk through it.
When people are brave enough to speak up and share their plight, they often find unexpected help or solutions.
It's like a rainbow after the rain, which is short-lived, but hopeful.
Many people choose to remain silent when faced with problems, believing that it is a rational approach.
But in fact, communication and sharing are the first steps to solving problems.
Ernest Hemingway once said, "Man is not born defeated, you can destroy him, but you can never defeat him." ”No matter what kind of difficulties we face, as long as we have the courage to face them, there will always be a solution.
For example, if someone can't sleep at night because of financial pressure, if they choose to talk openly and honestly with family or friends, they may find that there are many ways to reduce that stress.
In fact, having the courage to speak up is the beginning of solving the problem.
Sometimes, when you're alone, you can feel a little lost, especially if you've just experienced something that didn't go your way. But that's not to say that being alone doesn't have to be frustrated.
Because being alone can also be a way to recharge, give yourself a little space and time, to think, to clear your thoughts.
It's like the sky after the rain, although it may be a little gloomy at first, but you can always see a rainbow at the end.
For example, sometimes, you may feel a little unhappy because of the pressures of work or life.
At this time, if you can find a quiet place and give yourself some alone time, you may find new ways to solve the problem, and your mood will gradually improve.
For example, some people like to run away when they encounter problems, and they always hide alone and are unwilling to communicate with others.
Over time, it can really become more and more frustrated, because the problems are not solved, but accumulate more.
Jobs is familiar to everyone, he was kicked out of the company he founded for a while, and he also experienced solitude and reflection during that time, but eventually he used this time to rediscover his direction, return to Apple, and lead the company to great success.
Being alone doesn't have to be frustrated.
If you can use it to reflect and adjust your state, then being alone is a positive behavior.
But if it's just used to avoid problems, you may end up in frustration.
So, when you feel the need to be alone, ask yourself if it's to escape or to better face the problem.
In this way, alone time can become more valuable.
Everyone's life trajectory is different, in middle age, some people may have a successful career and a happy family, while some people may encounter various ups and downs.
As the old saying goes, "* is not expensive, and the emperor is straight." What is truly precious is not the external wealth, but the inner persistence and straightforwardness. Sometimes, being downcast can make people face themselves more truly and understand the meaning of life.
Accept life's ups and downs. No one's life is smooth sailing, and downfall may only be temporary.
The important thing is to stay true to yourself, even in the most difficult times.
Life is endless, and the struggle is endless.No matter what difficulties we encounter, as long as we are still breathing, there is hope to change the status quo and usher in a new dawn.
Pay attention to me, let the rhythm of words compose the music of life;
"Nightingales leap in the moonlight, their feathers shimmering with silver. Its singing voice was like a wonderful **, which touched my soul deeply. "