Life is a playground, and you can live your life to the fullest without thinking about others.
Don't think about the rhythm of others.
People don't have the same rhythm as people, don't lose yourself in other people's lives. At my age, some people can already play soy sauce with children;Some people are ready to get married and have children;Some people are in love;Some of them even got married a few years ago and have been married for the second time, and I chose to break up with the wrong person at the age of 28. Finding the other half is not a compulsory course in life, finding your favorite rhythm and loving life is.
2.Don't take into account what others are saying.
There is a type of person in life who especially likes to spy on other people's lives and talk about other people's privacy. When I first entered the society, there were always people who inquired about my salary and life in the name of caring about me. I used to tell them all the time. As a result, I found that once I told them, if you were better off than them, you would be jealous and even slandered behind your back, and if you were worse than them, you would be a joke and spread everywhere. Now when I am asked by others, I have all played haha, and my life has nothing to do with you.
3.Don't think about other people's emotions.
I used to have a friend who complained to me about the unfair treatment she encountered in the workplace and confided her emotions every time I contacted me, and the more I responded, the more energetic she became, completely treating me as an emotional trash can, and I echoed or interrupted. Every time I talked to her, I was in a bad mood. Later, when she sent a complaining message, I chose: not to read, not to listen, not to reply. Negative energy is a quagmire once it is difficult to get out, it will make you unlucky, we must learn to stay away from people with negative energy, and block negative energy things.
4.Do not think about the fate of others.
I agree with the sentence: "Respect the fate of others and let go of the helping complex." "There is no shortage of such examples around us: your girlfriend tells you that your boyfriend doesn't pay much attention to herself, picks on herself, and doesn't treat herself well, you help her analyze and make suggestions from an objective point of view, or find a boyfriend to talk about it, don't force it if you don't get along. As a result, within two days, the other party was coaxed by her boyfriend's two sweet words, and turned her head to her boyfriend and said that you provoked their relationship and made yourself not a person inside and out.
Everyone is an adult, and they are responsible for their own lives, and they can not understand the way of life of others, but they must be respected, and there is no need to consume themselves for the sake of other people's bad things.
Life is only 30,000 days, and it is a lifetime in the blink of an eye. On the premise of not harming the interests of others, why not consider others to live themselves.