Since I was a child, I have always been very concerned about other people's opinions, and when I went to school, I was always cautious, and I didn't dare to wear new clothes or skirts, because I always felt that everyone wore pants more, and there were very few people who wore skirts, and I was afraid of being one of those people who I felt special.
Growing up, this perception of caring about others made me overly sensitive. Whenever I change into a new outfit, I am always worried that others will notice me, and this shame always follows me.
If someone jokes that my clothes don't look good, I take it to heart and keep asking people around me what they think of me. Even when I get compliments from others, I wonder if they're just polite and polite.
During a chat, I was envious of a friend's dashing attitude. She never minds what others think, she wears whatever she likes, and even if others say she wears something different, she won't change because of this. She always expressed her preferences firmly and responded, "I just like it myself, and it doesn't matter to others." When I heard this, I instantly understood what my problem was.
Yes, a lot of life's troubles stem from paying too much attention to other people's opinions. We think too much about the feelings, emotions, and perceptions of others and ignore our own needs and feelings. In interpersonal interactions, we should put ourselves first and others second.
If we can do it without considering other people's feelings, emotions, and opinions, then we can reduce a lot of unnecessary worries. We should learn to pay attention to our inner needs and feelings, and value our emotions and moods. Only in this way can we truly live our lives and enjoy the beauty of life.