In this world, kindness is a precious and beautiful quality. However, treating kindness needs to have some edges and corners, and this is the real tenacity and persistence. In interpersonal relationships, we must know how to protect ourselves and not get wet in order to hold an umbrella for others.
True kindness is not to give unprincipled to others, but to care for others on the basis of knowing how to take care of yourself. Excessive self-sacrifice will lead you to lose yourself in this "goodness", and you may eventually fall into exhaustion and helplessness. Therefore, being kind to yourself is a prerequisite for true kindness.
Kindness is not the same as weakness, but it requires rational kindness. In interpersonal communication, we need to have our own bottom line, not blindly tolerate, and not give up our principles in order to please others. It is the kindness of reason that brings true respect and gives us a better place in our relationships.
Life needs to have a good heart, but at the same time, it also needs to have a sharp edge. Without some sharp edges, it's hard for us to get further in this world. A moderate edge is a form of protection for oneself and others, a way to remain independent and strong in the face of the world.
Truly good people deserve to be respected and cherished, but rotten good people are a poison. When we overindulge others and meet their needs, it can end up making the relationship sour. Timely stop loss is a compulsory lesson for adults, and they must know how to protect themselves and not let bad people become the source of poisoning interpersonal relationships.
True kindness should be both easy-going and angular. When dealing with others, we need to learn to be flexible in our relationships, not to be deliberately pandering, and not to lose ourselves. Soft and sharp kindness can be invincible in complex social situations.
A good life requires us to know how to protect ourselves and treat others rationally and with a bottom line. At the same time, exploring the psychology of painting is also a way to express and understand emotions. If you are interested in this field, or want to learn more about the psychology of painting, please feel free to chat with me and let's explore this creative and inspiring field together. I hope that you can live a fulfilling and confident life with a kind and sharp attitude in your relationships.
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