For students, the most distressing thing should be to write homework, so some children don't like to write homework, when parents ask "Is homework finished?".The child immediately responded and finished writing. It is a very bad behavior for children to lie and not like to write homework, which will not only reduce the efficiency of children's learning Xi, but also make children develop Xi the habit of lying, and parents must educate their children in time in this case. So, how can you improve your child's grades?What to do if your child lies and doesn't like to do his homework
1. Communicate with your child
In fact, after every child lies, they are unwilling to admit that they have lied, at this time, parents should not be too eager to blame their children, let alone directly beat and scold their children. Let children realize the disadvantages of lying, and only by persisting in guidance for a long time can they help children get on the right path. At the same time, it is also necessary to cultivate the courage of children to take responsibility from an early age, so that it is easier to become a big man when they grow up.
2. Gradually decentralize power, so that children have the right to make their own choices
The first step in delegating power can start with selective questions, such as asking your child, "Do you want to do your language homework or math homework first?"You decide. Let the children make their own choices, not for them: "Write math first, then language." He also emphasized that it is up to him to decide, which will make children feel respected and better stimulate their Xi motivation to learn. When the child can complete the first step well, and the parents gradually delegate power, the child can subtly develop the Xi of reasonable planning before writing homework.
Parents are often distressed because children are naughty, naughty, and do not do their homework wellWe will discover the strengths and strengths of children's learning and Xi, strive to cultivate children's legitimate interests and hobbies, give necessary affirmation and encouragement in a timely and appropriate manner, enhance children's self-confidence, and let children truly have a sense of achievement.
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3. The reward and punishment system is clear
Homework should first make the child realize that this is a task that he should complete and belong to his responsibility as a student, rather than everything being done by the parents, so that the child mistakenly thinks that writing homework is also something that parents should "worry about". Once you've figured out how much work you're doing, set a time when you should finish it, and leave 5-10 minutes to spare.
If it is completed on time, then the next time can be arranged freely. If you finish it early, then you can enjoy a certain small reward, if you finish it overtime for several days in a row, then the desired wish cannot be realized, and you even need to compensate for it with actions such as doing housework.
4. Parents should correct their children's Xi attitude
Children make the same mistakes all the time, and they may not be easy to correct. At this time, parents must be patient, the child always lies and does not complete the homework may be because of irresponsibility. In the process of education and guidance, parents must not criticize their children, but find problems with their children. Otherwise, the child is vulnerable to blows and becomes less confident.
How can I improve my child's grades?What to do if your child lies
1. Find out why your child is lying
When a child lies in anticipation of negative consequences, parents should understand their child's needs and set more realistic rules. In addition, some children will lie to get their parents' attention because they have less contact with their parents. In other words, parents should strengthen communication and interaction with their children, learn more about their children's thoughts, and let their children feel the love and attention of their parents.
2. Don't blame or punish adults at the first time
If parents are emotionally negative for the first time, they will miss the opportunity to understand their children, and they will also close the "door" of parent-child communication. In the future, it may take more effort for you to "open", and even some "barriers" between parents and children will never disappear.
In fact, lying is a necessary process for every child's mental development, as a father said, "In fact, most of us adults, no one has not told a lie when they were young." There are also white lies, which are often told ...... almost everyone"So, there's no need for us to overreact. Calm down, in order to cope better.