Why is your child careless, and how should parents help their children overcome it?

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-30

There are many reasons why children do not learn Xi well, some think that they are careless, often write numbers or words wrongly, write half of the words, do not mark the tone, write half of the sentences, miss half of the questions, forget punctuation, do not fill in the final number, forget to write the unit and "answer"·· In fact, all of them will, but they are a little careless, and some think that they don't work hard. In fact, the root cause is laziness and stupidity. These children are too lazy to Xi, too lazy to listen to classes, too lazy to Xi, too lazy to do homework, too lazy to read ......In short, it's just lazy.

Why would the hairy child be careless?There are many reasons behind this. Sometimes, they may be unable to concentrate on tasks due to a lack of focus and concentration;Sometimes, they may be overconfident and lose sight of the detailsThere are also times when they may not be able to patiently complete a task due to a lack of patience and meticulousness. So, how can we, as parents, help our children overcome carelessness?First of all, we need to guide our children to establish good learning XiXi habits, so that they can learn how to concentrate and stay focused. Secondly, we need to strengthen the Xi of practice and improve the child's concentration and carefulness through continuous Xi practice. Finally, we need to develop patience and meticulousness in children, so that they can learn how to patiently complete a task. The problem of carelessness cannot be solved by simply saying "be serious next time". We need to start from multiple aspects and grasp it in all aspects. Only in this way can we really help children overcome the problem of carelessness and make them more attentive, focused, and confident.

Read the questions slowly

At the moment when we pick up the paper, we need to start the slow reading mode. Especially when the description of the topic is long and complicated, it is necessary to slow down the pace and savor it carefully. Leisurely reading word by word, accompanied by deep reflection, and excerpts of key information, pave the way for subsequent answers. Like finding your way through a dense forest, we need to observe carefully and grasp every detail in order to find the right exit. For example, mark known data on the graph of the problem. Remember, you can't jump to conclusions until you finish reading the questions.

After reading it in this way, you basically only need to read it once, and the useful information will enter your mind correctly, and you will be able to correctly use all the known conditions when you do the questions!Then if you look at the wrong topic and miss the conditions, you will completely say goodbye to yourself.

The calculations are neat

When solving math problems, scratch paper is your assistant, carrying our calculations and reasoning. It's like drawing on a blank sheet of paper, and we can use our minds as much as we want. Scratch paper, no need to care about other people's eyes, do not have to stick to the form, it is just a stage for us to think. However, many students are in this free space and make a mess of scratch paper. When confronted with complex problems, they are like explorers looking for a way out in a labyrinth, and they need to list countless equations and calculations in the maze of known conditions. At this time, scratch paper silently records our every step of thinking and every trace of exploration. The moment we find the answer, it is also cheering for us. At this time, if the calculation process on your scratch paper is relatively neat, clean and eye-catching, then it is easier to find the key information implied in the known conditions, and there will be no misuse of numbers, wrong symbols, etc. The problem-solving process is naturally smooth sailing!

Go back and check

After completing a question, judge the reasonableness of the result based on your own experience and the results of this question.

For example, the number of results found in the solution is ugly;Or the time required to solve it turned out to be negative.

At this point, you need to go back and double-check the calculation process just now. Well, clean and neat scratch paper plays another important role – it's easy to check!

Dig deep into the roots

For some questions, the teacher only needs to pluck them lightly, and the children can understand the correct way to solve them. These mistakes seem to be due to carelessness, but in fact they don't understand the concept clearly enough. It is like a lost child who, although he sees the right path, goes down the wrong path because of uncertainty about the direction.

At this time, the role of the teacher is like a bright tower to guide the way, just a light of guidance can help the child find the right direction and get out of the fog. Therefore, we need to pay more attention to children's understanding of concepts, so that they can master the correct methods and at the same time be able to clarify their own ideas, so as to avoid mistakes caused by vague concepts.

Then, this time can't be changed. We should grasp the small problems and not let go, dig deep into the root causes, use analogies, comparisons and other methods to go through the relevant knowledge and thoroughly sort it out.

Concentrate on the question

Practice Xi questions and homework should be taken seriously, and treat them as exam questions. When doing the question, you should first turn off the computer, ** and other electronic devices and focus on the topic. Then, complete the questions quickly and conscientiously, just like you would for an exam. After completing the question, go listen to **, rest, and let yourself relax. Through this kind of practice, Xi slowly develop the Xi habit of concentrating on problems and focusing on things, and carelessness will naturally stay away from children.

Confidence, determination, patience

Carelessness is a bad Xi, like a cancer, but as long as we make up our minds, build up faith, and persevere, we can definitely cut it off. Just like a small sapling, as long as we take care of it and irrigate it carefully, we can make its roots deep and leafy and thrive. Breaking the bad Xi of carelessness requires us to be vigilant at all times, like a strict craftsman, carefully carving every detail. Only in this way can we gradually develop the habit of being careful and Xi carelessness completely out of our lives. So, let's build confidence and resolve to replace careless bad Xi with careful good Xi habits!(end) Quality Authors List

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