The old teacher encounters troubles The daughter is in high school, and the wife is going to accompany the student, what should I do?
Recently, Mr. Luo from our school has been in an anxious predicament, which has made his life boring and sleepless. The reason is that his daughter has entered high school, and his wife insists on renting a house near the school where her daughter attends.
In this regard, Mr. Luo had a strong opposition and tried his best to find various reasons to persuade him, but his wife had made up her mind, which made him feel helpless. In many attempts, he avoided his wife and quietly slipped to the balcony to smoke, sighing and crying silently.
After Mr. Luo's daughter entered high school, she called him during military training, and his wife made up her mind to accompany her. Mr. Luo is a middle-aged man from Anhui Province who is 48 years old this year. As a junior high school Chinese teacher, he has spent 26 years on the three-foot podium and has accumulated rich teaching experience. His school is a remote township junior high school, more than 50 kilometers away from the county seat. And his wife is a contract worker who works as a kitchen assistant in the school cafeteria.
Due to the family's financial constraints, Mr. Luo did not marry his wife until he was 26 years old, which can be regarded as a late marriage. A year after they got married, they welcomed a son, who is now enrolled in a "985" university. At the age of 32, they added another daughter named Ajuan. A middle-aged daughter, Mr. Luo and his wife regard Ajuan as the pearl of their palms and have loved her extremely since she was a child.
Ajuan has been studying Xi school with her parents from elementary school to junior high school. This year, at the age of 16, she took the high school entrance examination and was admitted to the county No. 2 middle school. Last week, Ajuan went to the school in advance to participate in the military training of freshmen in high school. This was the first time she had left her parents and moved to a boarding school hundreds of miles away, much to her mother's concern. After sending off her daughter, the mother sat on the sofa with tears in her eyes.
Last night, when Mr. and Mrs. Luo were about to fall asleep, the ringtone of Mrs. Luo's mobile phone suddenly rang. It turned out to be her daughter's **, she choked up and said, "Mom, you come to pick me up and go home, I don't go to school anymore, I don't want to live in school." After that, he began to cry.
Upon learning of Ajuan's condition, Mr. Luo's wife almost collapsed, and urgently summoned Mr. Luo to ask for help from a colleague who had a car, and took Ajuan home overnight. Ajuan told them about the rigor and hard work of military training, the unbearable requirements of the instructors, the poor quality of the school's food, only a few bites of food per meal, no appetite, the dormitory was full of mosquitoes, and the hygiene Xi habits of other students also made her feel unbearable ......Ajuan cried for more than an hour.
Mrs. Luo cried with Ajuan, and her eyes were red and swollen. Ajuan took out the school schedule, she had to get up at 5:30 in the morning, go to sleep at 11 at night, have to take 12 classes a day, and didn't even have time to take a shower. To persist in such a life for three years is daunting just by imagining.
Teacher Luo and his wife tried their best to persuade them, but Ajuan resolutely refused to go to school, rushed into the room and locked the door. At the important moment when my daughter has just entered high school, is her school interrupted?Mrs. Luo resolutely decided that she was going to rent a room near the county No. 2 Middle School to accompany her!
Faced with his wife's insistent decision, Mr. Luo's eyes widened in shock and shook his head like a rattle. He did not think that this decision would work, and gave the following reasons.
First of all, accompanying the study will put the family in financial difficulty. The combined living expenses of the mother and daughter require at least 2,000 yuan per month. Moreover, the wife will resign from her current job in order to accompany her students, and the monthly salary of 3,000 yuan will not be available. The expenses of the whole family depend on Mr. Luo's salary, and it is obviously beyond their means. The couple are already half a hundred years old, how can they borrow money to get by?
Secondly, Mr. Luo's son did not accompany him when he was in high school. My son, who is studying in the county No. 1 middle and high school, also experienced various discomforts at first, but after only a week or two, he no longer showed dissatisfaction. The son showed a strong ability to be independent, and in the three years of high school, he was able to solve difficulties on his own, bear grievances, and his academic performance was excellent, and he was finally admitted to the "985" key university.
High school students need a transition period. Compared with junior high school, high school has heavier academic tasks and more pressure, and students usually have an adjustment period when they first enter high school. After a while, short or long, the students got to know each other, gradually Xi the life of high school, and everything naturally got better.
There are many benefits to living on campus for students, so sooner or later they will need to live on campus. Boarding the school can arrange the work and rest time uniformly, and require students to abide by the school rules, which helps to cultivate self-discipline and tenacity, and exercise willpower. The group life style can improve students' interpersonal skills. If you don't live in high school, don't you need it when you go to college?Students who have not experienced high school boarding also face adjustment periods in the early years of college, and they are further away from home, which is even more worrying.
Teacher Luo tried his best to defend his wife, and used various reasons to dissuade her from her decision to accompany her. However, Mrs. Luo believes that her daughter is a girl, psychologically fragile and not as strong as her son, and although she needs to be independent and exercised, safety is always a top priority. In addition, there are only three years of high school, and for the sake of my daughter's academic and healthy growth, even if I have to tighten my belt, the sacrifice of three years is worth it. Even though she has lost her job now, three years later, she will only be in her 50s, and she will still have the opportunity to find other things to do, and even go back to her hometown to work as a farmer, and live on her own without being too difficult.
Mrs. Luo stressed that she had made up her mind that even if she did not accompany her to study, it would be an ordeal to worry about her daughter every day at home. The couple argued for a long time, and Teacher Luo felt that she could no longer convince her. Depressed and helpless, he walked to the balcony alone, lit a cigarette, and looked blankly into the distance, silently crying in his heart.
Whether or not they should accompany the study has become the focus of controversy between the old teacher Mr. Luo and his wife, and the two have their own opinions, and whose proposition is more correct has become an unsolvable problem.
Teacher Luo tried to dissuade his wife from accompanying her to study, not only because of her confidence in her daughter's ability to be independent, but more importantly, they have been married for 25 years and have never been separated. In the past half century, they have been accompanied day and night, and now the old years are forcing them to separate the two places, which makes Mr. Luo's heart full of deep sadness.
Throughout the day, Mr. and Mrs. Luo had an argument over the issue of accompanying the students, focusing on the controversy over whether Mrs. Luo should go to the county seat to accompany the students.
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