Unsurprisingly, when men and women choose who to marry, they fear having someone else to rely on for the rest of their lives. I still don't want to get married when I fall in love to a certain extent, so I leave, but I just walk out and I don't know if the other party is right.
Love can be said casually, and even if there are mistakes, there is an opportunity to correct them.
Marriage is not child's play, choose to marry a person, even if you find that it is not suitable on the way to stop the loss in time, but life will eventually be dedicated to the other party's imprint.
There is only one life and the fault tolerance rate is very low, when choosing a marriage partner, don't be emotional for a while, feel that the other party who loves each other should be together forever, but look at whether the other party is willing to take the initiative to give you three things when you get along.
Whether a marriage is sweet or not is not up to one person, it requires both parties to feel the same way.
When a relationship is healthy, the people in it will naturally taste the sweetness of intimacy, and the partner is willing to respect all your feelings, which is characteristic of a good relationship.
Just as "do you know" Gu Tingye proposed to Sheng Minglan, it was obviously worth a lot of money, and if he was forced to marry, he would not be able to get it with his ability, but he did not take such a means to invite Minglan into his home, but seriously did emotional foreshadowing, blocking the possible obstacles between the two in front.
Then, with 100% sincerity, she confessed to Minglan and put on her character to show that she was willing to respect any choice. Gu Tingye's sincerity and respect touched Minglan heart, and the marriage between the two went smoothly.
A man who is willing to give you enough respect will not satisfy his compulsion without taking into account your feelings, and the marriage relationship will not be bad.
The core of understanding is whether the views of the three are consistent.
The true unity of the three points of view consists of the exact sameness between you:
Having the same interests and hobbies can stretch on topics that can never be talked about;Having the same pursuit ensures that both parties are moving towards the same goal together.
A higher level of consensus also includes that even if you have a disagreement and the other person disagrees with what you represent, they can support you for no reason, just because what they don't agree with and can't accept is what you like.
To truly love someone is not to satisfy yourself, but to love me and be willing to understand others.
Like they say online:
You like to eat coriander, he doesn't like to eat coriander, people who don't love you will stop you from eating coriander, and people who love you will pinch their noses and buy coriander for you to eat.
If one is willing to empathize with your emotions;Accept your actions;Knowing everything about you is the cultivation of the other party and the love for you.
Love, both to take and to give.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will think of giving each other a better version of yourself. The charm of good love also lies in this, in the process of loving someone, you will carve yourself more perfectly.
People who don't know how to love think that love is as long as there is a other person in their hearts, and those who are loved by themselves must accept everything about themselves unconditionally, even if they are nothing and have no place to be loved;
On the contrary, people who can provide a high-level emotional experience know that the premise of love is to love oneself, and giving a perfect lover is the best interpretation of love.