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How romantic and sweet it is when you love you, and how cold and heartless it is when you don't.
But some men, he may not directly say that he doesn't love, but does it more ruthlessly.
1. Cold violence.
In the movie "Wu Wen Xidong", Xu Bo often doesn't say a word every time he has a conflict with his wife Liu Shufen, and he doesn't communicate with her like air.
Outside, Xu can often be polite, but when he comes home and sees his wife like a beast, he is reluctant to approach her, nor touch her things, even if his cup is broken, he is not willing to drink from the bowl with his wife's cup.
It was this desperate mental torture that changed Liu Shufen's temperament, and she was Xi using beating and scolding to vent her dissatisfaction. But in fact, on the contrary, in the eyes of outsiders, she is a stubborn "tyrant", which makes everyone avoid her and accuse her.
Liu Shufen said, you don't use your fists, but you just use your attitude to beat me to a bruise and a purple, you make me feel like I'm the worst person in the world.
In the end, Liu Shufen couldn't stand the cold violence and committed suicide by jumping into a well.
When a man doesn't love you, he just treats you as if you don't exist, hangs you up with cold violence, and turns a blind eye to everything about you.
Feelings are not afraid of quarrels, but they are afraid of not communicating, so that the contradictions between you will always exist and cannot be resolved, and the relationship has been stalemate without temperature.
2. Find an extramarital lover.
This is the most common trick used by most men, when there is a dissatisfied complaint from the wife, instead of finding a way to communicate, but asking for help from the outside world to find short-term fresh stimulation.
Thirty gang "Gu Jia, gave up the family's career, her husband taught her son, not only kept the house in order, but also supported her husband Xu Shenshan's large-scale business at work.
It stands to reason that Gu Jia is an all-rounder, taking care of the family's food, clothing, housing and transportation at home, and is Xu Moshan's right-hand man at work, how many people want to be a capable daughter-in-law.
But in Xu Moshan's eyes, his wife's ability has become the highlight of his incompetence, and his wife's meticulous service has become a shackle that he has no choice.
Machismo made him want to escape, so Xu Moshan met Lin You's hobby that connived at him, everyone listened to him, admired him, and admired him, Xu Moshan's vanity exploded, and he felt that this could reflect his true manhood.
And the Lin family has a secret conspiracy, completely ignoring how much the Gu family has paid for this family, so when the Gu family learned that Xu Xiangshan went behind her back to find a foreign affair, the marriage collapsed so much.
She couldn't think of him being wrong, was it wrong for him to give up his career in order to make Xu Moshan better and work more smoothly?
A man looking for a lover outside of marriage is undoubtedly a heavy blow to the woman who loves him, which is the bottom line of all women and is unforgivable.
3. Transfer of property.
In the book "The Evil of Marriage", I see that men are even more cruel to their wives.
Lu Danni can be described as the princess of the ancient street, she has her own company, and is the crazy pursuit of an image designer Deng Jiazhe, the families of the two are obviously different, and their parents stop them, afraid that Deng Jiazhe is for her family's money.
But he was infatuated with Lu Danni or married Deng Jiazhe, and Deng Jiazhe really loved Lu Danni at the beginning and was very good to her.
Lu Danni gave birth to a child at home and raised a child, and the company let Deng Jiazhe take power, but she didn't expect that after the poor boy took power, his brothers and sisters entered the company, and his greedy nature was exposed, and the family went to collect the company's oil together.
Deng Jiazhe was unwilling to work only for his wife, he wanted to take the company for himself, secretly transfer his property, and prepare to squeeze the company dry and replace it with a new stove.
In order not to make the clever Lu Danni suspicious, put the medicine in the food every day to let her sleep.
When a man changes his mind, he will forget the price that the woman paid for him, he will forget that his good life is brought by the woman, and he will only maximize his own interests at the cost of hurting the woman who loves her.
When love is not there, the best way is to stop the loss in time, not grovel to please, not to stalk, and make yourself better after leaving him, which is the most powerful counterattack to him.