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Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

Since ancient times, China has been a country that attaches great importance to etiquette, and when giving gifts, it also pays attention to human affection and enhances the friendship between people. However, withEconomyWith the development of society, gift-giving has gradually deviated from its original intention, and some people even use gift-giving to collect money.

In today's society, many people use various excuses to hold banquets in order to make a lot of money. For example, when it was supposed to be a small family gathering, it was necessary to invite all relatives and friends to attend the banquet as a kind of congratulations or witness. And the people who attend the banquet often do not come empty-handed, and at least bring a few hundred dollars. Sometimes children have to hold a college entrance banquet when they are in junior high school or high school, ostensibly to show that they pay attention to etiquette, but in fact they are to collect money.

For such a banquet that you know is held for the purpose of collecting money, it is best to politely refuse to participate, especially yourselfEconomyand not in abundance. There is no point in participating in this kind of feast, it only adds to one's own burden.

Sometimes friends hold birthday parties or other drinking parties, and many people are invited to participate. However, some people were not officially invited, but they heard the news and bought gifts on their own initiative to go to the event in a panic. Friends may be shocked when they see your move, but will soon invite you to the dinner and explain why there is no formal invitation. However, only your friends know why they didn't invite you, most likely because they don't care about you.

This kind of uninvited gift often becomes a laughing stock at the banquet, everyone mayMeetingsTalk about it. Some people come uninvited and do not bring gifts, which is even more inappropriate, especially on some important occasions, which will leave a bad impression.

Therefore, if you do not receive a formal invitation, you should not decide to go to the banquet at your own discretion. If you really want to participate, you should communicate with a friend in advance to avoid embarrassing situations. At the same time, it is also very important to bring gifts, which can be small gifts or gifts with a heart, to express blessings and gratitude to the owner.

When Chinese receive gifts, they often show a very humble attitude or refuse to accept gifts. However, in modern society, many people completely ignore the intention behind the gift after receiving it.

When receiving a gift, you should pay attention to the intention of the gift and the intention of the other party, rather than simply looking at the gift itself. Even if it is an ordinary gift, as long as it is carefully selected by the other party, you should be grateful and cherished. And, after receiving the gift, you can also send a message or make a ** to express your love and gratitude for the gift.

Being able to understand and respect the intentions of others is also the greatest reward for gifts. Whether it is giving or receiving gifts, we should not only see the material value in it, but also pay attention to itEmotionand camaraderie.

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