Gift-giving has been a way for people to connect since ancient times.
However, not all occasions are suitable for gift-giving. 
Courtesy is light and affectionate, this is the truth we have learned from Xi primary school. However, do all gift-giving build deep relationships?Today, we're going to reveal four reasons why the meaning of gift-giving is lost!
Although China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times,But gift-giving also depends on the situation, and not all situations are worthy of our heart.
In some cases, no matter how much you give, it will be meaningless.
Therefore, when encountering these situations, don't easily show your mind, otherwise you will only be disappointed.
It can be said that there will be no change in the slightest.
The first is the uninvited gift.
Speaking of which, it has been very clear that there is no point in giving gifts without being invited.
If you don't invite you on some important day, you think that you really don't have much importance in people's hearts.
So in such a situation, do you still have to live by yourself and go to the ceremony?
Doesn't that feel like a bit of a redundancy?
I didn't think of you on such an important day, so will I think of you in other situations in the future?
You know, it's impossible.
Generally speaking, on these more important days, what kind of people to invite must have been considered a lot beforehand.
So after a few people have been thinking about it for a few days, they haven't invited you, or they have completely forgotten about you as a person, or they still remember you as a person, but in their minds it has become meaningless to invite you.
So in this case, let's not do too much and have nothing to do on our own.
Don't think that he didn't invite you, if you take the initiative to be a guest, he will definitely appreciate you.
In fact, it is very likely that not, in reality, people will not always remember you as a person through Xiaoen Xiaohui.
Maybe people don't want you to go when they first talk back?
After all, this is an extra amount of money, who wouldn't want it?
And then there is the kind of person who only wants to ask and doesn't want to give, simply put, he wants you to give a gift, but if you have something, you won't return the gift.
Or if you encounter something in the future, you won't care about your people.
What does it mean to you to make friends with people like that?
After all, any kind of friendship is not a person who only relies on unilateral payment or unilateral maintenance.
Whatever the circumstances, inviting guests for these big events can be a lot of money.
But some of this money is equivalent to an exchange, which is a heart and a blessing.
However, when it comes to money, a lot of things can pop up on the one hand.
Some people even go to the cost of tearing their facesWhen you invite, you are not willing to spend a penny, and you will be cheeky to the extreme.
In such a situation, can you still do it in the southwest, is the person who collects your money really suitable to be friends?
As long as you invite the other party to participate, he must have all kinds of reasons to refuse your invitation and not agree to your invitation, just to save money.
Such a person is really not suitable for deep friendship.
After all, you don't want to be a deputy in such a situation, so how should you face it if you really get into trouble in the future?
I believe that the other party will definitely not lend a helping hand to you.
Such a friendship is indeed very chilling.
When you meet such a friend, is it necessary for you to unilaterally come out and maintain such a friendship?
Making friends with such a person is a complete waste of feelings and energy.
In addition to such spaciousness, there is also a casual gift for no reason.
You must know that the ritual generally refers to what kind of major event occurs before the salute is carried out.
Got married, or had children, or something big happened, and an important loved one in the family died.
Such a big day must be visited.
However, in such a situation, go to symbolize this kind of etiquette.
In such a situation, it really shouldn't be done.
But now there is even a situation where, in order to receive gifts,Some people even have all kinds of reasons to gather for a banquet and invite relatives and friends to receive gifts.
You must know that in some cases, you don't need to have a big banquet, you just need to have fun with your family.
As a result, in order to earn this money, I invited relatives and friends everywhereCollect money from others, and some even have to entertain others in order to collect more money.
So when you receive such an invitation, there is no need to go and give a gift or something.
There is also an exaggerated birthday of his own pet, and he was invited to the banquet, which is very ridiculous.
In this way, it is necessary to entertain people and ask people to give gifts, and there are assassins who are indeed greedy for money.
And in fact, everyone knows it, but it's not like debunking you to your face.
Learn to say "no" when faced with such a situation.
Don't just accept that others will make fun of you as a fool.
There is a good chance that such a person will not reach out to help you when you are in trouble.
When encountering such a situation, don't make a decision immediately, and if you can not be friends together, you should quickly separate.
After all, it is believed that it will not be of much benefit to you to dominate such a friend!
The last case is the one with whom you don't contact you all year round.
I haven't been in touch with you for many years, you don't even know his current situation, and he doesn't know what you're like now, so he wants to invite you.
In such a situation, do we still have to go to the salute?
Know that the friends who fancy you will definitely stay in touch with you.
Even if the two people have been separated, or if the two people are far, far apart.
In such a situation, he will still contact you, which means that you must be very important in his heart.
Such friendships are worth the effort to maintain.
But once they separated, they immediately cut off contact with you, or they cut off contact with you in close proximity.
It shows that you are dispensable in the peace of mind, and if you don't care, you won't care, and if you don't care, you will eventually break off contact.
Such a person, do you still want to unilaterally pay to maintain this relationship?
There's really not much need to stand up.
When Grandma Chang doesn't practice Xi you, what kind of big things do you encounter, but she still asks you to be courteous.
Try not to follow this kind of etiquette, after all, it is unnecessary in a large sense.
Those who can break contact must be people who don't have much importance.
Such a friend should be broken as much as possible.
I haven't been in touch all year round, I haven't spoken, is there still a friendship between you?Or can people remember you after you give the gift?
Can I lend you a helping hand when you are in trouble?If you can't do that, there's no need to salute it!
No matter what kind of relationship it is, it must be two-way, and it needs to be maintained together, so there is really not much point in not having an emotion-based gift!