I happened to see some advertising slogans, although they are all to promote their own products, but they are also very interesting to read carefully.
For example, the advertising slogan of a luxury brand: If there is something that must be done, it is to love yourself first.
Another example, a gold jewelry advertising slogan: You are testing me for not being material, I am testing whether you love me, I don't have the material you think, and you don't love me as much as I think.
Therefore, love others in moderation and love yourself with all your heart.
Actually, whether this is a particularly selfish idea, I can't say.
When people are alive, they will always have some selfish thoughts, and they will think of themselves first in many things, which is very normal.
But there are always some people who always think of others first. For example, our mothers.
I was chatting with Mr. ** last night, and I happened to talk about my mother. Mr. said that my mother had been reluctant to throw away her clothes for many years, and she had been wearing them, and it was not that she had no money to buy them, so why not wear them well.
I said that my mother had endured hardships and came from that difficult era, so she was very frugal all her life. Of course, this is partly due to this, and partly because my grandfather was a very frugal person.
In this regard, my mother and grandfather are the same.
However, my grandmother and aunt were completely different. My grandmother likes to buy clothes, and my aunt likes to buy clothes, and they both like to dress beautifully, even if their hair is gray.
I have to say that both my grandmother and my aunt love themselves more in this regard.
But the mother is not.
I remember when I was a child, the conditions at home were not good, but my mother was always afraid that I would not dress well and be bullied by others at school, even if I had no money, she would dress me beautifully, and she rarely added new clothes herself, even if she was still very young at that time.
My husband has always felt that his mother was too frugal, reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, and reluctant to go out to play. For a long time, my mother would instill in me this particular idea of frugality.
Therefore, among my peers, I can be regarded as a very frugal type.
In the past, Mr. said that I was picky because of this.
But now he doesn't say that I picked it, it is because of my frugality that our family's life is getting better and better.
Let's be honest, if you're particularly rich, who wouldn't spend it. Even a three-year-old child knows to take the money to buy things and buy good food.
Managing a home, if you don't plan carefully, you can buy everything as you like, and when you really spend money at home, you can't get the money, that's the biggest sorrow.
Perhaps, my concept is still more traditional, I think that everything must be prepared for a rainy day, have a plan, and never be able to be a moonlight clan, and never be as free and easy as others.
Saying that I love others less and love myself with all my heart and soul probably can't do it.
After having a family, I will think of my children first, because children are small and need to be taken care of, and then I think of my parents. Parents are older and need to think more about them.
Then there is for Mr., who is a lifelong companion who will accompany me to the end of the world.
In the end, I am myself.
People may feel humbled. I don't feel humbled, I am in control of the whole family, and naturally I have to think about everyone.
Some people may say that you don't deserve it.
If you think something in this world is meaningful, it is worth it. If you don't think it makes sense, it's not worth it.
I will love my family and I will love myself. I want my family to be happy and happy, and I want myself to be happy and happy.
In a family, there must always be someone to balance all the people and things, and I think I am that person.