Education is no small matter, but parents don't need to be all soldiers. Some parents are dissatisfied with some details and problems in school education because they are overly sensitive, and choose to complain and report through the Internet. However, overly sensitive attitudes often have a negative impact on students' development. Schools usually give priority to parents' feelings when dealing with complaints, and teachers will inevitably be aggrieved. Therefore, parents should remain rational and not overly critical and sensitive when it comes to education, so as not to create a negative Xi environment for students.
Teachers are sometimes powerless to be oversensitive to parents. The kindergarten is cleaned regularly to kill insects, but mosquitoes and flies cannot be completely eliminated in summer. Therefore, sometimes it is not a big deal for a student to get bitten by a mosquito. However, some parents are very sensitive to this and do not understand that the kindergarten has done its best to prevent it. They are upset because the child was bitten by a mosquito and put the blame on the teacher, which is very unfair. Such parental behavior is incomprehensible and unacceptable.
Recently, the name "My Family Zihan" has become a new stalk on the Internet and has been widely ridiculed by netizens. It is understood that Zihan is a kindergarten student, and his parents frequently trouble teachers because of some small things. They always treat their teachers in an arrogant tone that makes people want to laugh. Some netizens even use "My Family Zihan" as a new Internet stalk, which frequently appears under various social hot news and hot searches**. The appearance of this stalk makes people sigh at the power of the Internet, and it also makes people feel helpless about the behavior of the bear parents.
The behavior and attitude of the bear parents have attracted widespread attention and ridicule on the Internet. Many netizens felt incomprehensible about the behavior of the bear parents, and also ridiculed their arrogance and arrogance. They hope to make the parents of Xiong realize their problems and return to rationality through ridicule. Therefore, the name "My Family Zihan" has become so famous on the Internet, whether it is a post or a complaint, almost all of them can see the figure of "My Family Zihan". This phenomenon makes people want to laugh, and it also makes people feel helpless about the behavior of the bear's parents who are about to be played bad.
For front-line teachers, in the face of such a situation as Xiong's parents, it needs to be handled appropriately to prevent misunderstandings and further intensification of conflicts. First, teachers can choose to communicate with parents face-to-face and explain the ins and outs of the matter. If face-to-face communication is not feasible, you can also communicate through ** or voice to avoid misunderstandings. During the communication process, the teacher should maintain emotional stability, patiently and meticulously explain the ins and outs of the matter, so that parents can return to calm.
At the same time, teachers should also pay attention to avoid textual communication, because sometimes words cannot fully express real emotions, but it is easy for parents to "think too much". In addition to explaining the truth of the matter, the teacher can also come up with some solutions to make parents feel that their problems are taken seriously and solved. When dealing with problems, teachers should maintain an objective and impartial position, and do not shirk the blame or shirk responsibility at the beginning. Even if the problem is not related to the teacher, it is not possible to rush to shirk the responsibility, which will make parents question the school's education.
Finally, if there is an unreasonable parent, the teacher needs to report to the school leadership in a timely manner, so that the school can take appropriate measures to protect the rights and interests of the teacher and the reputation of the school. At the same time, teachers also need to try their best to deal with conflicts and conflicts between students to avoid further deterioration of the situation.
When it comes to education, parents, students and teachers are all important actors. Parents should remain rational and not be overly critical and sensitive, so as not to create a negative Xi environment for students. Students should be grateful, cherish the hard work of their teachers, and work hard to learn Xi and lay a solid foundation for their own growth. For teachers, there are several principles that need to be followed when faced with front-line teachers who need to deal with parents' excessive emotions. First of all, it is necessary to communicate with parents through face-to-face communication and explain the cause of the problem. If this is not possible, you can communicate by ** or voice. Secondly, teachers should remain calm and patient and try not to let themselves be affected by the emotions of their parents. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to solving problems and proposing solutions, so that parents feel that the problems have been valued and solved. Finally, if needed, teachers need to report to the school leadership in a timely manner so that the school can take appropriate action. In short, in the face of parents' excessive emotions, frontline teachers need to deal with them properly to prevent the problem from worsening. At the same time, it is also hoped that parents can recognize the problem, return to rationality, and work together for the education and growth of students.