Hello everyone, in life we often encounter unreasonable parents and naughty children, we call them bear children and bear parents. So how do we deal with this kind of parent?
Some people with violent tempers will use violent means to solve it, although it is very relieving, but it will inevitably bring unnecessary trouble, and some people will always be reasonable, but they will find that in the face of this kind of parents and children, no matter how much they talk about it, it will not help, and even hurt themselves even worse.
In fact, when we encounter this kind of person, the only thing we have to do is to treat them in the way of others, and let them suffer the consequences, which will be effectively solved. Here are a few stories to illustrate.
Story 1: A property owner in the community often walks the dog without a leash, everyone has a lot of opinions, said several times in the community group, but this person still goes his own way, ignores it, a parent printed a piece of paper, it is written that I am the parent who walks the dog without a leash, I live in a certain unit on a certain floor, and have opinions to come to me!Soon there was a group of people at the door who were talking, and this person quickly apologized after seeing it, and tore off the paper, and went out to walk the dog honestly in the future.
Story 2: There is an old man who likes to be clean, there is a big yard at home, and there are often children to play, very noisy, and he can't drive away, so the old man thought of a way: he told the children, I am very lonely here, thank you for making me more lively, every time you come to play in the future, you will be rewarded with a dollar, a week later, one piece becomes five cents, five cents become two cents, and then simply do not give. The children were angry and said that they wanted us to play without giving money, and from then on, the children never came again.
Story 3: There was a child on the train who kept making noise, and the people next to him dared not speak up, and a young man took a handful of candy and attracted the child, and he pointed to his shoes, and then poured some water on the shoes, and motioned for the child to do so, and the bear child did so, and the young man gave him a candy, and the young man pointed to his parents, and the same gesture, and the bear child took a cup of hot water and poured it on his father's shoes.
Keep in mind that dealing with the bear child and the bear parent is not an easy task, but through communication, guidance, and education, it is hoped that the situation will be improved. However, if it can't be solved, it is important to think backwards.