Everyone knows that there is infinite power in our words. "When a man says 6 words, he violates the will of heaven!These six words can lead to disputes, conflicts, and even disasters. Let's go along with these words and learn how to avoid them in order to maintain harmony and peace.
My name is Zhang Ying and I am 72 years old this year. As a long-lived old man, I have a wealth of life experience and wisdom. I used to be a teacher and retired as a volunteer. She has a warm and harmonious family with three children and five lovely grandchildren.
Having seen a lot of the world, I know the power of words. These 6 words, simple and ordinary, can lead to irreparable consequences. So, I try to avoid them in my daily life.
The first type: blurting out angry words.
We are all emotionally controlled at times, and words can become hurtful. When we're angry, frustrated, or sad, it's easy to blurt out such words out of our mouths. But remember, suppressing this impulsive emotional speech can avoid hurting others and yourself. Instead of regretting it, it is better to calm down and make a statement.
Second: offensive remarks.
Sometimes, we may be aggressively criticizing, blaming, or ridiculing others. However, such words only provoke discord and hostility. Instead, we can communicate with others based on respect and understanding and build good relationships.
The third type: biased speech.
Prejudice is one of the root causes of disharmony destruction. When we judge others with biased words, we not only hurt their feelings, but we also limit our own thinking. By embracing a diversity and inclusion mindset, we can gain more opportunities and wisdom.
Fourth: malicious gossip.
Gossip is a cancer in a society, not only hurting the reputation of others, but also lowering one's own moral standards. As wise people, we should refrain from engaging in spreading rumors and encourage others to develop positive values.
Fifth: exaggerated rhetoric.
Sometimes we exaggerate facts in order to attract the attention of others or to have humor. However, this exaggeration can lead to misunderstanding and mistrust. We should be based on truth and integrity, and use appropriate words to express our opinions.
Sixth: needless complaints.
Complaining is a negative expression of emotion and doesn't actually solve the problem. Instead, we can focus on solutions and actively seek change to make our lives more positive.
I want to tell you that by controlling our words, we can avoid a lot of quarrels, conflicts, and unnecessary sadness. So, let's use wisdom and gentle language to create a society that lives in harmony.