The new type of gnawing on the old continues to spread, and parents don't think so, and they show off how good their children are!
A new type of pension"is spreading, parents don't think so, and they are showing off how good their children are.
The modern education system produces students who are more forward-looking, more independent, and more inclined to take the initiative and lead in learning and life.
While the current employment prospects for college graduates are not promising, many are not lowering their requirements for their professional standards. For many college graduates, looking for one"Close to home, easy work, high income"work has become their main choice.
It should be pointed out that in the face of a huge number of graduates of more than 11.58 million, the severity of the employment situation cannot be ignored. From the internship in the fourth year of university, many students start to actively look for jobs, but they cannot find a suitable job until they graduate. Therefore, it is necessary to look for other career fields such as public service or postgraduate study. Due to the high employment requirements of university students, the number of applicants for graduate courses and civil service competitions is increasing year by year, but the actual number of students admitted is relatively small, and millions of students fail to meet their expectations every year.
The tendency of some students, for various reasons, to reluctance to enter the labour market and to limit themselves to public service or postgraduate studies is gradually intensifying"A new type of old man"。
Love the new and hate the old"The phenomenon is spreading, and parents will boast about their children's excellence even if they do not approve. College students"Gnaw the old"It is famous for not going out to work after graduation, but staying at home all day, indulging in games and sleeping for long periods of time, and relying on parents for everything.
This kind"Older generation"It was widely discarded, but now a new paradigm has emerged. Many parents do not realize the seriousness of the problem and think that their children are very promising.
Take, for example, Li Wen, who graduated from a non-permanent dual college with a general major, and has little prospect of employment. After graduating, Li Wen has been unable to find a job, although some companies have contacted him, but due to unsatisfactory salary, he has strong self-esteem and arrogance, and he has refused them one by one. When he couldn't find a suitable job, Li Wen saw that his classmates around him had the possibility of taking public examinations and graduate studies, so he chose to follow the crowd.
In the end, Li Wen decided to take the public service examination, and boasted to his parents that after passing the examination, he could become a civil servant in the public service department and enjoy glory and wealth. After hearing this, the parents were full of expectations for their son's future and fully supported Li Wen's entrance examination for public office.
Time flies, three years have passed in a blink of an eye, and Li Wen still has not found a public job. In fact, by now he had given up his efforts, but he was reluctant to enter the labor market, so he could only pretend that he was still working hard and deceive his parents, claiming that he would really succeed this year.
This is actually quite common. Many graduates initially choose to escape the pressure of employment by taking the civil service or graduate school exams, but over time, not only do they fail to achieve their goals, but they also lose the practical experience that recent graduates have. The years passed, the years grew old, but they achieved nothing.
This is a typical one"A new type of old age"Case, perhaps many parents have not realized the seriousness of the problem, and are still intoxicated with their children's imaginary bright future, narcissistically bragging about their children's excellent performance, without realizing that others are also laughing at this situation.
College students should be clear about their employment plans and always be vigilant"A new type of pension"The spread of the phenomenon. Life cannot wander forever, and no matter how good a person is, it will gradually pass with the passage of time"Withered"。Many students graduate with hope that they will find a satisfying job and excel in the workplace. However, due to repeated failed interviews or repeated setbacks in the workplace, many students want to give up. In addition, many parents now tend to put pressure on their children to accept public office or graduate school, so many students choose the path of public service and graduate school at the suggestion of their parents.
Nowadays, it is very difficult to get into public service or graduate school, so not all students can achieve their employment goals. This has led to some students preparing for exams year after year without success.
After a long period of preparation, students get used to a life where they don't need to work, and they get used to a life where everything they need every day is provided by their parents, and this comfortable life makes them reluctant to look for jobs and enter the workforce.
As a matter of fact, this situation has turned into a problem of growing into a habit of laziness, and college students should heighten their vigilance and avoid degeneration"New gnaws old people"。At the university level, students should make good plans for the future, and if they intend to take up public posts or continue to study for a master's degree, they should make full preparations for the examinations in advance.
This is because the public and graduate exams are generally more difficult. Taking the data of the 2023 graduate examination and public *** as an example, the total number of applicants for the graduate examination is 4.74 million, and the number of unsuccessful applicants exceeds 3 million. More than 2.5 million people applied for the public examination, and 2.47 million people failed to make the list.
These numbers clearly show that students should prepare well in advance if they want to succeed in the examiner exam. Overall, the exam is quite difficult, so students are expected to enrol with a genuine commitment to their employment goals, rather than an escape from the reality of employment.
If you don't have a clear plan for the future, consider trying a different job and thinking about your future direction as you gain work experience.
Today's topic: Do you have any presence around you?"A new type of old age"？