Don't think you're young. You're 50 years old.
hurriedly walked through half a life, in exchange for a tiredness, full of vicissitudes.
Looking back at my own road, I twisted and stumbled, and I really felt sorry for myself.
However, the road is difficult, it is still necessary to keep going, they have not yet retired, at the end of middle age, there are old and young.
I slowly found that the families of the post-70s generation have the following commonalities.
Most of our parents live in rural areas and never retire for the rest of their lives, counting on their children to support them.
Most of the parents are post, mostly in the countryside, and there is no big pattern.
Facing the loess with their backs to the sky, it is their biggest dream to be able to eat and dress warmly.
There are also parents who are in the city, in factories, units, and are now retired, but the proportion is not very high.
Parents who are not retired are everywhere. They have worked all their lives, but they are not rich. You build a house in the countryside, and you have to rely on the children to support you.
As time went on, both parents were seventy or eighty years old and even survived. And the dead parents.
Supporting parents is necessary, but it is a burden on the family. For those low-income seniors in their 70s, it is difficult to give five or six hundred dollars a month to their parents.
Luckily, there are several siblings to share with each other. Although siblings often quarrel, they completely abandon their parents, and their conscience is difficult to overcome.
I often think that if only my parents could retire. Come to think of it, you can't turn back the clock.
For the sake of our children's future, we slowly moved into the city and spent most of our savings.
I really think so, many post-70s generations didn't plan to buy a house in the city at first, but then they decided to buy it. After all, we can't afford to let the next generation suffer.
When we were kids, we had to climb mountains. This is not surprising. Now, I really don't want my child to suffer like this.
If you don't have the ability to settle down in a first-tier city, it is also a good arrangement to have a house in the county.
Take out the savings from years of work, borrow a little money, and the house will be there. Next, let their parents accompany them to study, and then go to work in the fields and return the borrowed money to them.
There are also some post-70s generations who are still in debt by the age of 50. Bite the bullet. It will be fine in a few years.
When we were young, we wanted to be scientists, and now our greatest achievement is to become parents.
When I arrived at school, the teacher asked, "You've grown up, what's wrong?"”
We say, "Be a scientist, a mathematician, an astronaut." ”
Yes, our goals are broad and general. In other words, when we are young, we also study hard, but the goal is lost.
Parents only know to encourage reading, saying "don't study, go to work" and so on. Parents were given little guidance when they left the countryside.
Gone are the childhood ideals and we can have a family, which is good.
Mixed at the bottom, making money everywhere, afraid of parents, incompetent.
We also became grandparents, and we were a little sad to get old in the blink of an eye.
At first, I wasn't used to hearing people call grandpa and grandma. But when you hear a lot of people yelling, you get used to it.
It's normal to be a grandparent when you're 50.
But there are also people who shout "handsome beauty" and feel uncomfortable. You know what you're doing.
Early in the morning, it's a little sad to look in the mirror. The traces of time are too obvious.
For young people, it's a bit out of place. It doesn't seem to be on the same channel. We say that the hometown complex, young people do not understand;We say rural life, young people have no experience. Young people say games, we are ignorant.
I miss when I was young, I had a lot of hair, and after a tiring day, I was immediately energized after resting for a while. Don't be afraid to fail. Try again.
We have been away for many years and want to go back to our hometown to retire, but we can't go back to our hometown.
Earn a lot of money, build a new house in my hometown, and then retire and go and enjoy.
In fact, in many rural areas, new homes are also locked.
After the parents left, the house was locked and the locks were rusty. The doorway was overgrown with weeds and the house was empty.
Some of the houses have been crumbling and even turned into rubble because they have not been renovated.
I wandered for too long, and I found myself back in the countryside, and I was not used to it. The transportation is poor, the medical care is relatively backward, there are no young people in the village, and the atmosphere is not positive.
If your parents died and you went back to the countryside to live with relatives, how could you be a guest?
Can you reclaim a few acres of land in the countryside?This is also a problem. Many people, for twenty or thirty years, have not planted or harvested rice, and cannot do farm work.
Continuing to drift and providing for the elderly in the city is the choice of many post-70s.
We're now driving out and saving $10,000, something we never dreamed of as kids.
When we were young, we drove out in a tractor and it was a joyful thing.
It's a tractor worth thousands of dollars. It's not something that the average person can buy.
There are very few 10,000 households in the village, which is enviable.
There are almost no ** in the village. It is important to write letters.
The roads in the mountains are all sandy and very bumpy. The dust is heavy, and the car must cover the mouth and nose.
Before I knew it, many of my peers had cars and used smartphones. This was unthinkable at the time.
My own home, not to mention the deposit of more than 100,000 yuan. However, now that I have 10,000 yuan, I feel too shabby and have no pride.