In this year's graduate school season, we saw a startling statistic: the number of graduate students applying for the exam fell by 360,000. This is the first downward trend in nearly a decade. At the same time, we also found that the number of applicants for the national public *** increased by 500,000. This situation makes people confused, is it no longer favored to go to graduate school?This is not the case, young people are becoming more sober and rational, and they are no longer chasing the path of graduate school alone. Some people choose to work in their own jobs, some people choose to be admitted to the civil service, and some people choose to start a business ......They are all looking for a way out of life. Because life is not like a track, but a vast wilderness.
In life, we often think that "it would be nice if I had chosen that job", "if only we hadn't broken up at that time", "if only I hadn't come to the big city and stayed at home". We always feel that the path that we don't have a choice seems to be better. For graduate school entrance examinations and public entrance examinations, many people do not hesitate to put in the effort and give up other things, just to go ashore. But when you go ashore, you will think that "it will be good to wait until you are admitted to graduate school" and "it will be good to wait until you are admitted to the civil service", and then there will be other waits.
However, there is no such thing as a "right" choice in life, and we can only try to make our choices right. No matter which path you choose, there will be regrets and difficulties. Like Ivan in the movie "The Butterfly Effect", he tries to change his choices by going back in time, only to find that everything always backfires and life gets worse.
Everyone's life trajectory is different, and there is no fixed path to follow. Some people choose to pursue money, some choose to travel, and some pursue worldly achievements. Whether a person's life trajectory is wonderful or not does not depend on the way he chooses, but on whether he truly faces himself and follows his inner choice. Only by being extremely honest with yourself can you get out of your own way.
Success in life is not about how much material wealth you have, but about spending your life in the way you like. There is no dress rehearsal in life, the only thing we can do is experience and feel, and then let go. In this life, we can try different options and experience different landscapes.
On the road of life, it is easy to lose ourselves and pursue success in the eyes of others. But what does it mean to be truly successful?It's not about saving enough money or having power, it's about finding your inner voice and true happiness. No matter which path you take or what choice you make, you must pursue your true self.
The most important thing in life is not what you get, but what kind of person you become. Whether it is a person who seeks power and status, or a person who seeks inner peace and happiness. When we stop and look back at our lives, we are proud and satisfied with ourselves, and whether we have truly lived our lives to the fullest.
There is no fixed path to follow in life, and there is no certain standard for success. Everyone has their own pursuits and choices. The key is to be firm in following the path you want to take and not be swayed by the eyes and expectations of others. Instead of pursuing for the affirmation of others, it is better to pursue what you like and make yourself truly happy and satisfied in life.
Life is a process of constant searching, trial and error, and constant growth. Whether it is a graduate school entrance examination, a public entrance examination, entrepreneurship, a job or other choices, it is just a milestone on the road of life. The important thing is to keep moving forward, keep exploring, and find the life you really want.
The pursuit of joy and happiness is the most important mission in life. Whichever path you choose, strive to find your true happiness and fulfillment. Life is not about pursuing other people's eyes and expectations, but about living your own wonderful life. In our short life, we must manage ourselves with our hearts and find our own unique voice and happiness.