1. Speak with appropriate reservations, do not hurt the self-esteem of others, and do not arouse the jealousy of others.
2. Be a big-eyed person to hear the truth from others. If the heart is too small, it will not be able to tolerate unpleasant truths, and it will often spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain.
3. After saying your opinion, ask the other person's opinion: "What do you think?"."Otherwise, if others don't object on the surface, they may stumble you behind the scenes.
4. If you want not to be deceived and not deceived, the simplest and most effective way is to never be greedy.
5. Let the other party agree first as soon as you come up, and the other party will be very embarrassed. Speak your purpose first and let the other person have room to consider, which will make people feel more comfortable.
6. When interacting with a person, the first thing to observe is whether the other party has a small belly or a large measurement. Don't joke about people with small bellies. In the face of people with a large belly, there is no need to be too restrained.
7. If a person has to worry about trivial things with you, then he just doesn't regard you as a true friend, and you have no weight in your heart.
8. It is normal for friends not to care about each other's trivial matters, but some people will take advantage of their friendship to take advantage of others. This should also be noted.
9. As long as small favors are given, the Chinese are very willing to help. But if great favors are given, the Chinese will be very alert to whether the other party wants to sell their lives.
10, some people love face very much on the surface, but they do a lot of dirty things behind the scenes. People who are full of benevolence and morality tend to be more careful. They are uglier than real villains.
11. Most people love face, give a proper compliment, say something he likes to hear, and he will become very talkative.
12. If you make a person lose face, he will definitely find ways to make things difficult for you everywhere. As a result, he lost face, and you didn't get better enough.
13. Everyone hates to be deceived, but when they lie, they can always find a reason to defend themselves.
14. Things gather like people in groups, and people with the same frequency can establish long-term relationships. If there is a relationship that is not parted, let it go.
15. When you hear something unpleasant, don't be in a hurry to refute it first. Let's discern if it really makes sense.
16. Don't deliberately highlight your advantages, so as not to offend the villains hidden in the shadows, and avoid them from secretly wearing small shoes for you.
17. Go to any place, first see and listen more, understand the environment first, and then you can better adapt to the environment, and finally slowly find ways to transform the environment.
18. It is useful to speak in a way that the other party can listen to and make the other party willing to accept it. Otherwise, no matter how reasonable it is, you can't let the other party stand on the same side as you.
19. Treat others not only with sincerity, but also with kindness. Keep these two bottom lines, and there is no bad relationship.
20. Point out the shortcomings of others, first express praise, then criticize, and finally still end with praise. In this way, it is easier for the other party's heart to accept.
21. No one likes arrogant and rude people, humble but not humble, polite but not respectful, so that others will feel very comfortable and will naturally like you and be close to you.
22. You can talk about everything with your confidants and point out each other's faults. You can't talk to acquaintances and strangers, because you don't know what taboos he has, and sometimes you offend people, and you're still confused.
23. Make friends without rushing to dig out your heart and lungs, get along slowly, be familiar with each other, and it is best to go through hardships together in order to become close friends.
24. A sharp-edged person is jealous, a person with no one in his eyes is angry, a person with frivolous words and deeds is annoying, and it is difficult to get good interpersonal relationships.
25. Even if you are capable, don't rush to express yourself. If you want to show your cleverness too much, you often end up being smart and being mistaken by cleverness.