The last episode talked about "the other side of Rui Xiaodan",It's all about loveBecause of the incomparably fiery love that put on the "perfect filter" for her, **Ying is incomparably perfect in her eyes, so it will naturally produce a strong sense of "dwarfed"., that is, there is no harm if there is no comparison, and even if he is free and easy like Rui Xiaodan, he will have a sense of inferiority and crisis. From this, you will find that the whole work is:
In fact, the whole story is triggered and catalyzed by Rui Xiaodan's emotions.
This is "".Everything in the world is one, two sides and the same energyTherefore, there is actually a saying about inferiority
Low self-esteem is the source of motivation for human transformation.
Without further ado, let's get into the topic of this issue**Ying's drunken words.
Rui Xiaodan added a little wine to the wine glass and asked, "What if you think I'm old in 5 years?"”- Let's talk about my personal opinion first:The future is unknowable because change is the only constant, what is changing?conditions, so ** is actually just to judge the direction, it can only be an approximation, and it is extremely difficult to distinguish exactly from it. Just like the fortune teller mentioned in the "Four Teachings of Fan", everything was as he expected, but he didn't calculate that Mr. Fan would meet a monk, and the monk would guide him to "change his life", and finally succeeded in changing his life.
Is that fortune teller high?Gao, because Mr. Fan's encounter before meeting the monk is accurate and accurate to the specific unit;But is it accurate?It seems that he is not so sure, because it is not his fate to meet a high monk?How many people have this opportunity?So this is not only fate, but also a very critical node, so the key node has not been calculated, are you right?
So in my opinion:On the way of numerology, the master is extremely clever, that is, the existence of the top of the pyramid in the field, but even then it can only be counted as "unchanging" things, but not what changes. Just like the reason why Mr. Fan was able to change his life was because he was able to "act diligently" after hearing the guidance of the monk, if not, then his future would still be as expected by the fortune teller. So who really made it successful to change his life?Answer: Yourself.
In fact, this is exactly what the Tao Te Ching says:
The sergeant asked, diligentlyWhen the sergeant heard this, if he survived, he diedWhen the corporal heard this, he laughed, and it was not enough not to laugh. ”So don't go to the superstitious master, even if the Taoist master like Mr. Fan's adventure will miscalculate, not to mention that most of the people who are indiscriminate and sell their fame and reputation nowadays;Don't believe in any promises, either, because when conditions are constantly changing, ideas will also "keep up with the times", such as "the material base determines the superstructure". That's why I've been emphasizing concepts such as "conditionalism, seeking truth from facts, and keeping pace with the times" are actually just talking about common senseWho doesn't make decisions based on conditions?Who doesn't do things for the sake of doing it and doing it well (seeking truth from facts)?Who isn't constantly changing (keeping up with the times) in combination with changing conditions?
ThereforeMany concepts are not truth, but are just "summing up and generalizing", and people in the world often regard them as truths and worship them as guidelines, but in fact they are self-deception and contrary to others. Therefore, the sages have a saying:
"The world is nothing more than the word 'right and wrong'. ”In fact, it is indicating-Distinguishing "right from wrong" is not only the supreme ability, but also the ordinary and the extraordinary, the real boundary between ordinary people, saints, and Buddhas, and what the world thinks is the simplest and most basic, but the most complex and profound. To sum up, Rui Xiaodan's question is "unanswerable" or there are countless possibilities.
Ying said: "It's possible, and it's not just this if. Maybe in 5 years, you will think I am mediocre, maybe one day you will sweep me away, but this will not affect the independent creditor-debtor relationship, nor will it change today's facts. After 5 years, I don't think you're old, can you not be old?After 5 years, I've become a **, is it worth your time to look back?”——*This sentence is rich in connotation:
It is possible, and more than this if"-Change is the only constant, so there are countless ifs.
It will not affect the independent creditor-debtor relationship, nor will it change today's facts;After 5 years, I don't think you're old, can you not be old?”-Only reality and law (truth) are unchanging, because they are inconceivable and do not depend on the subjective will of man, such as the creditor-debtor relationship (money), everything that is happening (the present), people will grow old (law)...
After 5 years, I've become a **, is it worth your time to look back?- pointed out the logical loophole of Rui Xiaodan's question: that is, set "I won't change" in advance, but will it really not change?Not necessarily.
Rui Xiaodan smiled, picked up the cup and said, "Adopt your suggestion and finalize the case!."”- Is this voice just Rui Xiaodan's?Have you ever thought about it: It was Rui Xiaodan who found meaning for the future of **Ying?If there is no Rui Xiaodan, then his future is almost doomed, that is, he said:*Ying picked up the cup and said, "Cheers to the Chinese cultural circle."
"Buy a house like yours in the suburbs of Berlin, make a special soundproof listening room, there are no neighbors up and down, no one knocks on the heating pipe**, you can turn on the sound to the limit of hearing, the sound quality is true and pure, you can be drowned by the overwhelming ** of "Volga River" and "New World", you don't know who you are, you don't know where you are, that's fine. ”So even if you are like **Ying, you can't imagine that you will meet Rui Xiaodan, just like Ye Zinong meets Dai Mengyan, Fang Di meets Ye Zinong, I meet the teacher, you meet me....But are these accidental?A: Certainly.
Therefore, can we make such an interesting speculation: After Xiao Dan's death, the ** British pseudonym "Doudou" completed Xiao Dan's unfinished business, and the "Doudou Trilogy" was born?
Rui Xiaodan asked, "I've drunk a lot today, do you still drink it?"”- Why is Ying so happy?Because this may mean "Rui Xiaodan's change of life".But have you ever thought about such a possibility: it was precisely because of his forcible intervention that Rui Xiaodan would encounter a series of subsequent situations and die young?Maybe if you don't meet **Ying, you don't fall in love with **Ying, there is no "myth"....Rui Xiaodan's life will be a completely different scene, just like Wang Mingyang's killer blow is an unprecedented stink bomb...But what is all this?Life.*Ying said: "It's the time you said I was like a hooligan, Han Chufeng and I drank two bottles, brackets, and poured them all before they finished drinking." Today you took my advice from two years ago, and I'm so happy that I have to drink. ”
Rui Xiaodan said: "As long as I don't realize and realize it, you can't give it to me, and I can't take it if I give it, Ye Xiaoming and they are examples." Only what I feel and realize can I possibly do, and what I can do is mine. ”- This passage is of great significance:
As long as it's not something I feel and realize, you can't give it to me, and I can't hold it if I give it."In fact, there is only one real teacher of man: himself. Because what people learn is what they approve of, and they accept it because of it, for example, you can always encounter such a situation in live broadcasts-
Someone randomly entered the live broadcast room for the first time, and just heard what I said was exactly what he recognized, and I expressed it more comprehensively and concisely, so he immediately praised me and called me "teacher";After that, a certain statement happened to be that this person did not approve and contradict, and the person immediately transformed and accused me of "PUA"...The interval between the periods may be less than 10 minutes.
Therefore, "who I am (in his eyes)" stems from whether I say that he recognizes it or not, and has nothing to do with whether it is true or not.
Ye Xiaoming, they are examples"-Rui Xiaodan's words are correct, but there are omissions:Ye Xiaoming: The reason why they are like this is because they can only be like this, and they have been treated as "experimental props", forcing them to do soIf it's for them to be enlightened, then it's going to be another way. So in this matter, the main problem is not actually with them, but with ** Ying.
I can only do what I realize and realize, and what I can do is mine" - this is what I have repeatedly mentioned"Mr. Yang Ming's so-called unity of knowledge and action", so knowing must have such action, and knowledge and action are one
Due to the effect of alcohol, ** Ying was hot all over, and his interest in speaking was stronger, and he said a little drunk: "Whether it is culture and art or survival art, there is no way, and there is still a way to ask for it." There is no way to do it, and it stops at the operation. What is your future?In ignorant beings, there is no truth and truth for all beings, only likes and dislikes, so you are valuable. Enlightening the way of heaven is the name of opening the eyes of heaven. What you need is a pair of heavenly eyes, a pair of eyes that have stripped away the distinction between politics, culture, tradition, morality, and religion, and then truthfully observe politics, culture, and tradition, and turn the truth and truth upside down by culture and morality. ”- This paragraph is extremely wonderful and worth focusing on:
There is no way, but there is still a way to ask for it. There is no way, and it stops at the art" - this is what I call "roots, seeds and branches, leaves, flowers, fruits, and fruits":Tao is "root, seed", art is "branches, leaves, flowers, fruits, fruits", there are "roots" will naturally have "branches, leaves, flowers, fruits, fruits";And if there is no root seed, or there is a problem with the root seed, then how can there be "branches, leaves, flowers, fruits, and fruits"?
What is your future?In ignorant beings, there is no truth and truth in all beings, only likes and dislikes, so you are valuable" - this is what I called "the only teacher of man":What I like is "teacher", what I don't like is "PUA", I can't distinguish between good and evil, so I can't distinguish between good and evil, so I am "ignorant", and ignorance is therefore "sentient beings", suffering because of ignorance, and (enlightenment) needs arise because of suffering, and needs generate value and form a value chain. Therefore, psychiatrists are actually the group of people who want more people to suffer from mental illness
Enlightening the way of heaven is the name of opening the eyes of heaven. What you need is a pair of heavenly eyes, a pair of eyes that have stripped away the distinction between politics, culture, tradition, morality, and religion, and then truthfully observe politics, culture, and tradition, and turn the truth and truth that have been reversed by culture and morality."This is to distinguish between right and wrong, remove all interference, and go straight to the root
Whatever you write, how you shoot, it's all new and deep"-On the one hand, it is scarce, and on the other hand, it is the truth, and the truth is right, yes, good, and good, so it cannot be forbidden。The drama "The Way of Heaven" is proof that he has been banned for 10 years and is still a god, isn't this the "Way of Heaven"?
This is money, fame, achievement, value, whatever you can say"-This is "cause and effect", planting the right cause will naturally produce the right effect, and "fame, fortune and goods" are just effects
Ying took another sip of wine and said with interest: "Is seeing with the eyes of the Tao the same as seeing with the eyes of people?"It's not the same. What is a special feeling?What does it mean to have a high intention and dig deep?That's not digging a trench, digging as deep as you want. It's not about climbing stairs, climbing as high as you want. If you are not on that one, you will not be able to see the truth of that one. The idea should be high and the digging should be deep, at best, it is a version of speculation and speculation, and it is not clear. ”- I can only say one thing:**What exactly do Ying and the "Doudou" behind him study?I can tell you definitively-Yang Ming Psychology.
And this passage is the "right path" that I have been talking about over and over again:Only by working the right path can there be good results;If it is not the right path, efforts will be counterproductive, and it is better to lie flat. And the so-called "results" on the wrong path are nothing more than two kinds:
Self-amusement (self-paralysis, hypnosis).
Go crazy. So on the other hand, some of the readers I have contacted, in all fairness, most of them belong to the latter category, just like Zhu Xi, because he took the wrong path, he ended up destroying his human desires for a lifetime, and when he was old, "Nan nuns are concubines and ** make daughters-in-law belly bigger", and the backlash is even more violent.
**Ying said ramblingly under the penetration of alcohol: "Yesterday afternoon, I sat alone in the room and listened**, listening to the song "Volga" by the choir of the former Soviet Red Army, listening to it many times, and the picture of Russia's resistance to Napoleon and Hitler came to my mind, which was very sad and very uncomfortable. Russia is a great nation, and no one in history can defeat them, but in the ideological confrontation between the two camps in the world for more than 50 years, they have lost in a culture that they have not yet fully understood, and the culture of the United States that respects objective laws has finally enabled them to win a victory that cannot be obtained by airplanes and artillery, so that the United Nations has become a princess who has fallen out of favor. In China, some people blame the Communist Party for democracy at every turn, but they don't know that China's political culture is also a victim of traditional culture. It is unfair to put all the cultural attributes that have been deposited over thousands of years into the account of a political party that is only a few decades old, and it is not a real national ......”- This is essentially a definition of a strong culture and a weak culture
Culture that respects objective laws - strong culture
A culture that does not respect objective laws - a weak culture
And different cultural attributes produce different destinies:
Strong Culture - Victory
Weak culture - failure
As for the rest, let's do it yourself.
Alright, this issue is here. Next Topic:
An easily overlooked scene in "The Way of Heaven": the dumb riddle of officialdom.
Welcome to continue to pay attention and look forward to exchanges and progress.