It is normal for children to write homework in a daze, they may lack interest and enthusiasm in this subject, or they may be disturbed by the environment, unable to concentrate on homework, parents avoid this situation, do not rush to scold the child, communicate with the child more, and provide the child with a quiet living environment conducive to learning and Xi. So, how to accompany your child to learn Xi?What should I do if my child is distracted by homework
1.Parents should ask the reason why the child is in a dazeTry to talk to him and get answers from it, or see through his eyes what he cares aboutThen there is the fact that he can draw at will, and through the content of the child's drawing, you can probably guess the child's thoughts.
2.Communicate with your child and don't miss any opportunity to do things with your child. When he writes his homework, you can accompany him, not to supervise him to complete his homework, but to accompany the child, communicate with him together, and help the child break through the difficulties intentionally or unintentionally.
In the past, my children also encountered such problems in Xi, and they had no initiative to learn Xi, let alone be strict with themselvesI really couldn't help it at first, until a friend introduced me, I made a Xi plan in the Tutu classroom, and after a period of Xi, the child's thinking and attitude towards learning Xi have changed greatly, the learning Xi has improved, and he has a sense of achievement, I am very pleased!
3.No matter what your child does, don't be in a hurry to deny or know what your child thinks, play with him slowly, learn Xi with him, and talk to him. Don't rush to affirm him, but be curious about his ideas, give unconditional attention, let him feel your trust and love, and he will slowly exchange ideas with you.
4.Be encouraging and don't interfere with your child doing what he likes to do. When a child is focused on something, parents should remember not to interfere with the child, but to wait patiently for him to finish the work.
5.Children need a quiet environment to learn Xi, parents don't care too much, let children learn independently Xi, and give children the space to play freely.
How to accompany your child to Xi?Should the child be reminded to do his homework in a daze
In the process of parenting, we often need to do one thing, and that is: remind the child.
For example, children often lose concentration when writing homework, fiddle with pencils and erasers while writing, or simply run away to play with toys halfway through writing.
At this time, we definitely need to remind him, but what bothers many parents is: the reminder is useless, the reminder is finished, and it is forgotten after two minutes. After a few times like this, it's easy for us to lose patience and even start yelling.
Reminding children, just like helping children, is a necessary job for us as parents, and this stage will definitely pass.
When helping children walk, we will not only be patient, but also loving, relaxed and humorous. In the same way, when reminding children, we should also find ways to be light-hearted and humorous.
1.Find a suitable time, that is, when your child is in a good mood, discuss with him the importance of concentrating on homework, as long as we have a relationship foundation with the child and do not talk too much, the child is usually acceptable.
2.A humorous and funny way is not necessary, but a light-hearted and non-blaming attitude is necessary. Don't blame your child, otherwise your child will have a rebellious mentality, which is not conducive to your child's Xi.
How to improve children's poor concentration
1.Digital training to train students' listening attention. The main exercise method is to randomly come up with a few numbers by parents, let students listen carefully, and then write down the numbers, which can range from simple to difficult, from short numbers to long numbers, so that students can get effective training, and they will be more attentive to what the teacher says during class.
2.Ear training is effective in helping children improve their concentration. Another way to train children's attention is listening training, which can effectively improve children's attention, a bit like English listening.
3.Behavioral training. That is, to positively correct the child's inappropriate behavior, establish its correct behavior, such as quitting frequent small movements, maintaining a correct sitting posture, etc., which can be used to preliminarily regulate the child's behavior.
For how to accompany children to learn Xi sharing is here, psychological intervention. By consulting a professional psychologist, master the skills to guide children's mental health in daily life, such as encouraging children's positive behaviors, etc., and gradually intervene in children's psychology, which can promote the improvement of inattention.
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